Are Amber Deahn and Ashley Smith excellent and calm women who did the right thing under pressure. I think so. The similarity seems interesting. The alert waitress spots missing 8-year-old girl in COEUR D'ALENE, Idaho at a Denny's restaurant around 2 a.m. Saturday. She felt something about the child's face was familiar. Amber Deahn kept the girl occupied until police could arrive at the restaurant. She told ABC News yesterday that one of the things she did to keep the abductor in the restaurant long enough for police to arrive was to read the dessert list ......... very, very slowly....