Ithaca, N.Y. — The Best Of Everything? By REBECCA JAMES The Commons is a popular gathering place in downtown Ithaca, N.Y. (Photo by Gloria Wright) ITHACA, N.Y. — When your town has made more than 25 lists that call it one of the best cities in America, you might be surprised that one magazine would call it one of the "Twelve Great Places You've Never Heard Of."But along with that 2006 designation from Mother Earth News, Ithaca seems to make the grade no matter what's being ranked. It's one of the "lesbian friendliest cities," has the "best...