I suspect, this would be, instead of shunning and reviling, sharing the Gospel of Grace in Christ Jesus as her husband would have wished.
She mentioned this in her speech this Sunday- "Saving the lost young men of the west".
Corrie Tem Boom, did this for a WW2 Prison Guard who had hurt her sister so. Saying so in a presentation she gave. He approached her and she did talk with him about Christ out of sheer grace (she said this was very hard for her to do).