............If I am undervalued and unrewarded, half nuts and to blame for every ill that can befall a child, I don't want to spend my last 15 minutes of consciousness at the end of what Warner describes as my exhausting and unfulfilling day reading about it. Maybe it is just me, because these books are flying off the shelves and the authors are getting time with Katie Couric and on National Public Radio and are on the cover of Newsweek. My theory is this: The authors of these books are just as bright, angry and tired as the mothers they...