Men being Men is a Bad Deal. Guys should Evolve Beyond Masculinity. By Robert Jensen Sunday, October 8, 2006 It's hard to be a man; hard to live up to the demands that come with the dominant conception of masculinity, of the tough guy. more..http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/chronicle/archive/2006/10/08/ING0FLHO7M1.DTL