Army widow copes with grief, enlistsBy Shawn Ledington September 23, 2004 YORK, Pa. (Army News Service, Sept. 23, 2004) -- Many times in her 16-month marriage to Spc. Nicholas Zangara, Mell Zangara would climb into his military uniform and prance around their apartment as though she was on a catwalk. "Don't I look hot, baby?" she'd ask him. "Wouldn't you like to see me come home to you in this?" Nicky would give her that look, the one that told her to give him a break. "You're not joining the Army," he'd say. New Beginnings Before marrying Nicky in...