Dorthy Moxley has spent a good part of this summer lingering over thoughts of hate.<!ENDSUMM!> ``I'm trying not to hate him. Hate is so destructive,'' she said as she prepares herself for Wednesday's sentencing of Michael Skakel, the Kennedy cousin convicted of murdering Dorthy's daughter, Martha. But despite her efforts in the months since the verdict to find a way to forgive Skakel, who at the time of the slaying was a motherless, child alcoholic with a smoldering temper, she wants to see him sentenced to life in prison. ``I had thoughts of leniency for Michael, but then I would...