There was an old English saying, "A mayde schuld be seen, but not herd" which has since morphed into 'Children should be seen and not heard'. The latter was the world I grew up in, and as one finds as one grows up, there is wisdom in old sayings. I remember being with my father and his friends as a child, and that saying was the rule, because of course, I had very little to offer an adult conversation. That was then. I also remember the Bill Clinton/Whitney Houston 80s and 90s. Bill Clinton for coining the phrase "for the...