When the Gavin Newsom scandal broke, most of us assumed the public reaction would be a no-brainer. Sleeping with a married woman? How do you think that would play with wives, girlfriends and single women in the Bay Area? As a Newsom staffer told a Chronicle reporter, there goes the women's vote. But a funny thing happened after the headlines hit and the buzz began: Many women said they were ready to forgive and forget. Not men, though. No way. Many said they would never trust Newsom again as long as they lived. Some were livid; many were incredulous. The...