Son caught in middle as pair goes on trial in his 1979 abduction 06/17/2002 By RICK A. MAESE / Special Contributor to The Dallas Morning News ALBUQUERQUE, N.M. - After looking over his shoulder for years, Barry Smiley tossed and turned for three sleepless nights, preparing to divulge the secret. Finally, in spring 2000 he had decided he was going to tell his red-haired, wide-eyed son, Matt Propp, his family background. Dismantling everything their son had taken for granted about his family, Mr. Smiley and his wife, Judi, told the boy that they had reared for 21 years that...