Dec. 23, 2003 All war and no play By FRIMET ROTH For a secular nation, we excel at self-flagellation. Monks could take lessons from us. Despite our already strained consciences, we seem eager to shoulder the blame for every injustice floating around. And often we get a little help from our European friends, kindly pointing a reproachful finger at us. So I suppose I should have expected an article like Ruth Sinai's in Haaretz, "Humiliation can scar a boy for life" (December 1), about the UNICEF Conference on "How to Protect Israeli and Palestinian Children from the Intifada." UNICEF has...