Posted on 08/04/2025 10:45:38 AM PDT by Red Badger
There is a growing trend of objectively beautiful women complaining about the lack of male attention while enjoying a night out with their friends.
Never in history have I heard of women complaining that men weren’t paying enough attention to them. However, after several decades of demonizing men for their advances, it seems men have finally taken the hint and backed off.
There’s a social media trend right now of women posting videos frustrated that men aren’t approaching them romantically. Instead of exploring the reasons behind this shift with curiosity and compassion, many of these posts have a blaming tone “What’s WRONG with men?”
Maybe…
— Lisa Britton (@LisaBritton) July 20, 2025
“It’s difficult being this hot,” a model from North Carolina told Jam Press, according to the New York Post. “Men think I’m too beautiful to date or worry that I’ll turn them down.” She claims men just don’t know how to approach beautiful women anymore.
While she is right about the feeling that men don’t know how to approach women like her anymore, her conclusion that it’s because they’ll face rejection is a crooked half-truth that doesn’t analyze the real fear men have when “hitting” on the opposite sex.
Rejection is likely the least of their fears. In fact, if you polled single men, they would probably take a polite rebuff over what’s actually at stake when they get the courage to talk to women.
Why are so few young men approaching girls now?
Massive shift underway where you have 8-9s yearning to be chatted up.
They get dressed up to go out, but all for nothing. pic.twitter.com/bThydjh0rF
— TastefulLindy (@LindyTasteful) July 18, 2025
When men notice a pretty woman across the room, the old calculation was: Am I in her league? Can I come up with a creative enough opening line to get her attention? But now they have to worry about whether or not they’ll be labeled as creepy for even approaching, or worse, get labeled as a sex predator and be added to the #MeToo list for simply paying her a compliment.
Men are in a lose-lose situation. Our society demonizes their inherent masculinity as toxic the moment they enter this world. Their gaze is looked at as menacing. What used to be considered a sign of the relationship between men and women is now looked at as dangerous.
Our culture needs an overhaul that allows men the freedom to confidently approach a beautiful woman in the wild (not through their phone’s dating app). But maybe now that hot women are complaining about the lack of male attention, there will be a change.
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I can aways tell by looking at her ankles ... if they are near her ears then I know she likes me ...
Its more based out of reality than bitterness. Reality isn’t always pleasant. I’m just a realist, but to people like you, realists come across as pesimists. You just don’t like what someone is saying so you declare it something bad you can then rationalize ignoring.
And I could also say I can’t take what you say seriously because you’ve drank the koolaid that society and music and hollywood have dreamdd up about romance and relationships. I don’t wear rose colored glasses. I see whats happened in the last 60 years and I don’t sugarcoat things.
And maybe, like many men, your little head got the better of your big head, and you made lousy choices - but you have to blame it on the woman in the case.
(My belief in ‘romance’ worked out very well for me. I’m truly sorry that you’re so miserable. But being miserable because of a bad experience is a choice, too.)
Me too! (I joke that I met my wife 44 years ago, when it was still legal to date the help.) I’ve never regretted it!
Yes. He has had two rough breakups.
:) you know zero about me. Your guilt shaming and blame shifting is well practiced, I’d say you were a woman if I didn’t know better. You have a good one now.
You and Bill Belicheck. Do you have his kind of money?
P.S. Switch out the Old Spice. There must be some new scents for men by now. Otherwise, you’ll remind them of Grandpa Badfinger.
Sure there have been, and probably are. It’s just that they’re told they’re lesbians or men or something these days.
“Based on todays morality, the marrying kind are getting harder and harder to find.”
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I know of two unmarried, but highly-desirable, women between the ages of 30-50 who have two children each. The fathers are absentee Illegal Hispanics, and may even be married.
Now that I think of it, nobody else in my admittedly-small American sphere HAS children.
:(
That’s what my daughter did. She still got looks, no matter how she dressed herself down, no matter how plain she made herself. Some women are just natural beauties, with or without makeup.
Absolutely not. It was almost a century later and was the first group to call it out. A lot of cucks and simps prior MGTOW sat and watched the Communists use Feminism to subvert this country and others.
I'm also for mandatory paternity tests before collecting taxpayer assistance. Whose child are we paying for?
MGTOW are the ultimate simps.
Now you're just spite-posting nonsense. Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) are absolutely not simping (showing excessive attention toward women, in the pursuit of sex or a relationship). They're showing them no attention at all.
I suspect you're many years into a bad relationship and resent that others walked away where you didn't have the courage to.
Now we know the story is made up.
That depends upon what you are talking about. Anne still holds records that haven't been broken. ;-D
Hey there are some hotties up there especially in the Stadium crowed.
Those percents are accurate but they only apply to those who were tested, and the far majority of those tests are initiated due to suspicion beforehand. Less than 3% of children are tested for paternity and the 33% to 50% of cuckoldry in that group does not extrapolate to the larger population.
Those are tourists attending Yankee games. Let’s not confuse them with the locals.
I know plenty about you from what you proudly splay all over this forum and which you have subjected us to for years.
You say that I “drank the koolaid that society and music and hollywood have dreamdd {sic} up about romance and relationships.”
But you show your ignorance.
The Hollywood concept of ‘romance’ is simply the culmination in our time of an ideal that began in the Middle Ages. It’s part of a centuries-long Western effort to transmute the crude human nature into something suitable for civilization and for the good of children and progress.
Sometimes it has experienced setbacks; but it has always moved forward again.
(By the way - I’m not a man.)
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