No thanks. But my beautiful bride of these many decades is still beautiful. And at 77, I'm still moving.
Posted on 08/04/2025 10:45:38 AM PDT by Red Badger
There is a growing trend of objectively beautiful women complaining about the lack of male attention while enjoying a night out with their friends.
Never in history have I heard of women complaining that men weren’t paying enough attention to them. However, after several decades of demonizing men for their advances, it seems men have finally taken the hint and backed off.
There’s a social media trend right now of women posting videos frustrated that men aren’t approaching them romantically. Instead of exploring the reasons behind this shift with curiosity and compassion, many of these posts have a blaming tone “What’s WRONG with men?”
Maybe…
— Lisa Britton (@LisaBritton) July 20, 2025
“It’s difficult being this hot,” a model from North Carolina told Jam Press, according to the New York Post. “Men think I’m too beautiful to date or worry that I’ll turn them down.” She claims men just don’t know how to approach beautiful women anymore.
While she is right about the feeling that men don’t know how to approach women like her anymore, her conclusion that it’s because they’ll face rejection is a crooked half-truth that doesn’t analyze the real fear men have when “hitting” on the opposite sex.
Rejection is likely the least of their fears. In fact, if you polled single men, they would probably take a polite rebuff over what’s actually at stake when they get the courage to talk to women.
Why are so few young men approaching girls now?
Massive shift underway where you have 8-9s yearning to be chatted up.
They get dressed up to go out, but all for nothing. pic.twitter.com/bThydjh0rF
— TastefulLindy (@LindyTasteful) July 18, 2025
When men notice a pretty woman across the room, the old calculation was: Am I in her league? Can I come up with a creative enough opening line to get her attention? But now they have to worry about whether or not they’ll be labeled as creepy for even approaching, or worse, get labeled as a sex predator and be added to the #MeToo list for simply paying her a compliment.
Men are in a lose-lose situation. Our society demonizes their inherent masculinity as toxic the moment they enter this world. Their gaze is looked at as menacing. What used to be considered a sign of the relationship between men and women is now looked at as dangerous.
Our culture needs an overhaul that allows men the freedom to confidently approach a beautiful woman in the wild (not through their phone’s dating app). But maybe now that hot women are complaining about the lack of male attention, there will be a change.
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I haven’t noticed this. Meanwhile there are feminist controlled groups like MGTOW that encourage men to let feminists take over society.
Girls in the summer when the air conditioning in their house goes caput?
Lost in all of this is something else that is very important.
Today’s women want to be in charge and don’t want the man to be the head in the relationship. That right there turns a lot of guys off.
What’s needed is loyal women looking for husbands.
I’m so glad I’m an old married man now.
Reminds me of the Playboy articles back in the 70’s where they said beautiful girls often couldn’t get dates because all the guys thought she was out of their league.
Yeah right...
I never met any. They were all out of my league. Playboy lied to me.
But maybe now that hot women are complaining about the lack of male attention, there will be a change.
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Yes, they will complain more, and more men will run from the complainers - as in: what else will they complain about later?
My father told me many years ago when I was young, "the more beautiful she is and the more she demands attention, the more likely it is that somewhere there is a guy who is tired of putting up with her bullshit."
So in fact, its been a thing, since forever.
So many available jobs and careers available in the trades.
I always was only interested in beautiful females for intimacy.
People probably think I’m kidding when I mention that I tried to remain anonymous with most females I picked up, and I thought it was useful that I moved around so much, and the situation for males has gotten worse since I was doing that.
Because they’re poison?
That woman is asking men to “touch a boob”? The guy would likely go to jail.
Yum-Yum: “Yes, I am indeed beautiful! Sometimes I sit and wonder, in my artless Japanese way, why it is that I am so much more attractive than anybody else in the whole world. Can this be vanity? No! Nature is lovely and rejoices in her loveliness. I am a child of Nature, and take after my mother.”
No thanks. But my beautiful bride of these many decades is still beautiful. And at 77, I'm still moving.
Just another woman complaining article.
I met my share. They all said the same thing, that guys wouldn’t ask them out because they thought they were already dating some guy.
Men have always been intimidated by women they consider beautiful. Men have told me this themselves.
For a lot of guys, it’s not easy to approach a beautiful woman. He’s basically taking his ego into his hands and giving her a chance to slight it.
Quit looking in bars!
It’s more than that. They complain because the “Right” guys aren’t paying them attention. If he ain’t 6’0”+. Trim, and rich, they don’t even see them.
I'd be more concerned about them having a d!ck.
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