:) you know zero about me. Your guilt shaming and blame shifting is well practiced, I’d say you were a woman if I didn’t know better. You have a good one now.
I know plenty about you from what you proudly splay all over this forum and which you have subjected us to for years.
You say that I “drank the koolaid that society and music and hollywood have dreamdd {sic} up about romance and relationships.”
But you show your ignorance.
The Hollywood concept of ‘romance’ is simply the culmination in our time of an ideal that began in the Middle Ages. It’s part of a centuries-long Western effort to transmute the crude human nature into something suitable for civilization and for the good of children and progress.
Sometimes it has experienced setbacks; but it has always moved forward again.
(By the way - I’m not a man.)