When the 14,000 soldiers of the 1st Infantry Division deploy from Germany in the coming month, they will leave about 25,000 family members in various German cities. What happens with the families is important to the Defense Department. So important, in fact, that Deputy Defense Secretary Paul Wolfowitz made his first stop here a visit with representatives of the Big Red One's Family Support Group. The 1st Infantry Division is set to relieve the 4th Infantry Division in Iraq, where they'll spend a year while their spouses must shoulder the burdens at home. "If we had to come up with...