I now know what I am going to do – But I am curious as to what other FReepers might do when faced with this situation. What will I do?? (I know what I am going to do.) I have a cousin whom I love, and with whom I am close. I grew up with this guy. We are both in our middle 40s. We both have gone through our teen-age years with some trouble along the way – and we both now hold good jobs. We both have done pretty well – in spite of our earlier attempts at...