From the New York Times column "Many Successful Gay Marriages Share An Open Secret" [Link to NY Times column below in first post]. Excerpted... "When Rio and Ray married in 2008, the Bay Area women ommited two words from their wedding vows: fidelity and monogamy. "I take it as a gift that someone will be that open and honest and sharing with me," said Rio, using the word "open" to describe their marriage. Love brought the middle age couple together. They wed during California's brief legal window for same sex marriage. But they knew from the beginning that their bond...