October 7, 2003 -- The father of a suspect in the Long Island hazing scandal was found dead at his home over the weekend - the victim of the stress caused by his son's impending arrest, the family lawyer said yesterday. The 40-year-old North Merrick man's death delayed his son's surrender. The Mepham HS student had been scheduled to turn himself in to Pennsylvania authorities today on charges of sodomy, kidnapping and assault in connection with the alleged sex-assault hazing at a Pennsylvania camp over the summer. Wayne County, Pa., District Attorney Mark Zimmer said yesterday he was seeking to...