FORT COLLINS, Colo. -- Power. Control. Privilege. Old, white, straight, Christian men. These are the power-holders in our society. It's funny. Just a couple of weeks ago, my "feminist" best friend made the comment, "I don't understand why I act more like a man than he does." She was referring to another friend of hers whom she felt was becoming "over-emotional." "Why does he have to act like a man to be strong? Why can't women be strong?" Ding. The light went on. Driving ever so slowly through Old Town last night, I looked at the sparkling lights and the...