"Alyssa Jones? ****, I know Alyssa Jones... I mean I KNOW Alyssa Jones....."
Posted on 06/20/2019 10:03:45 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd
“My boyfriend can’t get over how many people I’ve slept with. I shouldn’t have told him, but he pressed me for the info. He was 'nerdy’ for most of high school and college, and just started coming into his own in his mid to late 20s. I have been dating consistently for years, and have had my fair share of hookups and relationships. And while I don’t think my number is crazy at all, he can’t deal with the discrepancy. We’ve been dating for two years and we’re serious. I don’t want to break up. How can I handle this?”
I agree that you probably shouldn’t have told him, but lots of people fall into the trap of discussing their sexual history with their current partner, and I get it. If you trust someone, it’s natural to want to talk about what you’ve learned from past relationships and sexual experiences. That said, numbers really aren’t necessary, and rarely do anything aside from making one person feel bad.
But you can’t go back, and his reaction may have provoked an important conversation. After all (and as you well know), this isn’t an issue of who has slept with more people. It’s about his comfort with his past, and it’s about both of you establishing that your needs are being met by this relationship.
First, you have to figure out the problem you’re tackling, because it will change the course of action.
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Never tell your wife,lover mate about an affair you had to relieve your guilty conscious. Live with it, keep to yourself till you die. Take it to your grave. Nobody needs to know. Try not to do it again.
"Alyssa Jones? ****, I know Alyssa Jones... I mean I KNOW Alyssa Jones....."
That was a disturbing movie. Especially the (redacted) scene.
That reminds me. I must watch it again soon.
lol
hahaha...
LIke the saying goes
“Men plan, God laughs”
But a guy who slept around is called a stud.
Is that really a problem, or are you anticipating it as a problem?
My wife is white and my daughter is Asian. There has never been any question of who her mom is....
Son, always remember the Bundy credo: "Lie when your wife is waking, lie when your belly's aching, lie when you know she's faking. Lie, sell shoes and lie."
apts here in San Diego about 400 units, pool, jacuzzis, we have a lot of european and Brazilians here to study english for 4 months. Talking about a train station, and more trains come every day.
She has had more dicks in her than an LA detective agency.
For future reference girls, the correct answer is “only one, and he died in a car accident before we could get married”
Absolutely, if you need to get it off your chest, tell it to the Priest in the privacy of the Confessional.
No need to hurt someone else to alleviate your Guilt.
It never turns out well for anyone involved.
I don’t pretend that no extramarital activity happened in those days, but the situation compared to today’s hypersexualized environment is night and day.
Sounds like a slut.
Did she get free government condoms? Who was the slut that testified before congress?
Actually, he was already gone.
He was looking for an excuse to dump her.
I agree. I did the same thing with my last ex-wife except I was the one who had the “sordid” past.
In other words be a f-—ing man.
She’s seen more Prick than you can count on a Porcupines back.
Too many trains or too many riders ... either way.
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