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Forget What Gender Activists Tell You. Here’s What Medical Transition Looks Like
Quillette ^ | October 6, 2020 | Scott Newgent

Posted on 10/08/2020 11:30:15 AM PDT by karpov

At a recent gathering, a daughter’s friend told us, “I’m probably trans because I don’t like female puberty.” This instantly got my attention, because I have known this child for years, and I never saw any indication of her being trans. I innocently asked her why she would say that. Was it a joke, perhaps? She replied, “I don’t like my boobs growing, and Reddit says I’m probably trans.”

That night, I tracked down these Reddit exchanges, and my jaw dropped when I saw how many people and organizations were heavily pushing the possibility of her being trans. But perhaps I shouldn’t have been surprised, given the way such attitudes have gone mainstream. This includes the pediatrician mom whose recent opinion piece for the New York Times was titled What I Learned as the Parent of a Transgender Child. For kids Googling this subject, the overall effect is the equivalent of one big glitter bomb going off on their screen.

I write all this as a 47-year-old transgender man who transitioned five years ago. I’m also a parent to three teenagers. Though I admire the good intentions of parents who seek to support their children, I have serious concerns about reckless acquiescence to a child’s Internet-mediated self-diagnosis. Many older transgender folks share these concerns, too. In many cases, we are people who have been quietly going about our lives in society for years, anonymously sharing shops, offices, elevators, and sidewalks with everyone else, without making a big deal of our identity or proselytizing to others. We like it that way. But given the current climate, we now need to speak out.

That one comment by my daughter’s friend caused me to investigate the organizations that purport to advocate on behalf of the trans community.

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"He" is messed up, but I'll "him" credit for warning others against "transitioning".
1 posted on 10/08/2020 11:30:15 AM PDT by karpov
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To: karpov
"During my own transition, I had seven surgeries. I also had a massive pulmonary embolism, a helicopter life-flight ride, an emergency ambulance ride, a stress-induced heart attack, sepsis, a 17-month recurring infection due to using the wrong skin during a (failed) phalloplasty, 16 rounds of antibiotics, three weeks of daily IV antibiotics, the loss of all my hair, (only partially successful) arm reconstructive surgery, permanent lung and heart damage, a cut bladder, insomnia-induced hallucinations—oh and frequent loss of consciousness due to pain from the hair on the inside of my urethra. All this led to a form of PTSD that made me a prisoner in my apartment for a year. Between me and my insurance company, medical expenses exceeded $900,000.

During these 17 months of agony, I couldn’t get a urologist to help me. They didn’t feel comfortable taking me on as a patient"

"BUT, HEY, IT WAS ALL WORTH IT!!!"

2 posted on 10/08/2020 11:38:50 AM PDT by catnipman (Cat Nipman: Vote Republican in 2012 and only be called racist one more time!)
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To: karpov

There is nothing that makes moods worse than Lupron. Good moods come from hormones (and the gut bugs being healthy). It is child abuse to put kids on it to prevent puberty. I’ve been on it for fertility treatment and you want to kill your loved ones for breathing too loudly. It is not a good idea to put kids at puberty on such a drug.

Far better to help them enjoy their body and live how they wish. Lots of people have things wrong with their bodies, and if it’s not an easy fix, people learn to love their body anyway and be grateful for all it can do. Help these kids be happy. Let them live, dress, and love how they wish (platonically of course at that age)! Let them love themselves! It’s ok to feel like the other gender, just like it’s ok to have any number of conditions, and you belong in this world. Let’s focus on these confused kids regaining self love and self confidence. Let’s not mutilate them.


3 posted on 10/08/2020 11:39:35 AM PDT by Yaelle
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Mental illness is mental illness. Doesn’t matter what age you are.

Its pretty simple - perform a genetic test to see if the physical gender is the genetic gender. If it is, send the person to a psychiatrist, just like you would a person who came to you demanding that their healthy limb needed to be amputated. Something is wrong and its with the way their brain is working. Figure that out.

If you go along, as a physician you are responsible for the outcome. Prepare to be sued if and when the mutilated person changes their mind after the fact AND when they kill themselves over what they’ve irreversibly done to themselves.


4 posted on 10/08/2020 11:41:12 AM PDT by NicoDon
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To: karpov
"Lupron, the hormone blocker some doctors seem intent on giving to kids like Tylenol, isn’t even FDA-approved to treat children with gender dysphoria. (In 2001, the manufacturer pled guilty to fraudulent sales practices with regard to its marketing as a prostate-cancer drug.) We don’t yet know its long-term effects off-label, despite the fact parents have been assured that its effects are safe and even reversible.

Here is what we do know: The long-term use of synthetic hormone therapy shortens lives. Specifically, these medications are associated with an increased risk of heart attacks, pulmonary embolisms, bone damage, liver and kidney failure, mental-health complications, and more. Almost a quarter of hormone-therapy patients on high-dose anabolic steroids (such as the testosterone taken by female-to-male transitioners) exhibit major mood-syndrome symptoms. Between three and 12 percent go on to develop symptoms of psychosis."

5 posted on 10/08/2020 11:44:53 AM PDT by ConjunctionJunction
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What would a trans guy do if he would get wood...or something like that.😎
6 posted on 10/08/2020 11:49:07 AM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: catnipman

Exactly the pph I was going to pull.

I think the author is saying it was NOT with it and when it was done he was the same unhappy guy.


7 posted on 10/08/2020 11:49:08 AM PDT by freedumb2003 ("Do not mistake activity for achievement." - John Wooden)
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To: karpov

LGBT people recruit kids on line like ISIS does to serve their purpose. Both kill the very soul of young people as God designed and intended them to be.

These people need to watch....

“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.”....Matthew 18:6

God is not sleeping.....


8 posted on 10/08/2020 11:51:49 AM PDT by caww (...This constant pretending the president is a problem is pure evil!...)
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Och, du liber, mine Got im Himmel. Looks like this female wannabe found “herself” a real wannabe Doktor Josef Mengele to do a Mengelization. Poor Joe, he was limited to the Auschwitz population for his “practice.” If he’d only been born in the US a few years later, he’d be making millions doing “transitions” on deluded teenagers.


9 posted on 10/08/2020 11:51:54 AM PDT by libstripper
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To: NicoDon

>>Mental illness is mental illness. Doesn’t matter what age you are.<<

Even worse, trannies who do the cutadickfrome end up in a sexual lose-lose (even bruce jenner admitted this). If they get with guys they are a homo and trannies say they are not. And as women they feel no attraction to lesbians (other than the ones in Penthouse letters) and even then do not have the proper equipment for sexual gratification.

And it is a purgatory of their own making.


10 posted on 10/08/2020 11:52:18 AM PDT by freedumb2003 ("Do not mistake activity for achievement." - John Wooden)
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To: caww

I refuse to call these hideous “procedures” anything other than Mengelization.


11 posted on 10/08/2020 11:55:25 AM PDT by libstripper
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To: karpov

“For parents, I would say this: It is simply not your right or duty to decide to medically transition your child.”

Louder for the folks in the back.


12 posted on 10/08/2020 12:00:06 PM PDT by JenB987
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I applaud his honesty and willingness to speak up.

Despite my personal feelings on this issue, or any issue, people who are intellectually honest and have lived or experienced the issues they speak up about get my respect.

I believe in conversations based on morality but to truly convince the masses, you sometimes need more than that.

I look no further than Donald Trump, who has lived a life of vanity and vulgarity, but God has chosen him to speak out for a reason. He was the man we needed.

I see this person no differently. Or a woman who has had an abortion or worked in the abortion industry, to tell their stories and hopefully help save someone else.


13 posted on 10/08/2020 12:06:07 PM PDT by JenB987
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so everybody else's ins goes up so this thing can waste almost $1MM... one behind the ear
14 posted on 10/08/2020 12:09:31 PM PDT by Chode (Send bachelors and come heavily armed.)
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To: catnipman

So people who are suffering from depression and mental illness aren’t fixed by mutilating their genitals? That’s unexpected.


15 posted on 10/08/2020 12:52:00 PM PDT by pepsi_junkie (Often wrong, but never in doubt!)
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BUT, HEY, IT WAS ALL WORTH IT
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That’s because he/she did not have to pay for it. Insurance, Medicaid. paid the bills. In other words you and I paid the bills


16 posted on 10/08/2020 1:09:13 PM PDT by dirtymac (Now is the time for all good men to come to the aid of their country.(DT4POTUS))
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To: karpov

Liberals have confused people. They want to make them think that sexual preference = “gender”.

It doesn’t.


17 posted on 10/08/2020 1:24:51 PM PDT by jdsteel (Americans are Dreamers too!!!)
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To: AdmSmith; AnonymousConservative; Arthur Wildfire! March; Berosus; Bockscar; cardinal4; ColdOne; ...
"I'm Joe Biden and I'll PAY for your transition!"

Biden Aims to Move Left Without Abandoning Centrist Roots As He Leads Arizona

18 posted on 10/08/2020 1:59:50 PM PDT by SunkenCiv (Imagine an imaginary menagerie manager imagining managing an imaginary menagerie.)
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“During these 17 months of agony, I couldn’t get a urologist to help me. They didn’t feel comfortable taking me on as a patient”

Well, they are only qualified to work on actual human anatomy, not some science experiment a mad doctor stitched up in his laboratory.


19 posted on 10/08/2020 2:33:05 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: JenB987

The same people that think a parent NEVER has a right to decide whether their child should be allowed to get an abortion also think that a parent ALWAYS has a right to decide whether their child’s genitals should be mutilated and whether they should be chemically or surgically sterilized.


20 posted on 10/08/2020 2:36:42 PM PDT by Boogieman
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