Posted on 08/04/2025 10:45:38 AM PDT by Red Badger
There is a growing trend of objectively beautiful women complaining about the lack of male attention while enjoying a night out with their friends.
Never in history have I heard of women complaining that men weren’t paying enough attention to them. However, after several decades of demonizing men for their advances, it seems men have finally taken the hint and backed off.
There’s a social media trend right now of women posting videos frustrated that men aren’t approaching them romantically. Instead of exploring the reasons behind this shift with curiosity and compassion, many of these posts have a blaming tone “What’s WRONG with men?”
Maybe…
— Lisa Britton (@LisaBritton) July 20, 2025
“It’s difficult being this hot,” a model from North Carolina told Jam Press, according to the New York Post. “Men think I’m too beautiful to date or worry that I’ll turn them down.” She claims men just don’t know how to approach beautiful women anymore.
While she is right about the feeling that men don’t know how to approach women like her anymore, her conclusion that it’s because they’ll face rejection is a crooked half-truth that doesn’t analyze the real fear men have when “hitting” on the opposite sex.
Rejection is likely the least of their fears. In fact, if you polled single men, they would probably take a polite rebuff over what’s actually at stake when they get the courage to talk to women.
Why are so few young men approaching girls now?
Massive shift underway where you have 8-9s yearning to be chatted up.
They get dressed up to go out, but all for nothing. pic.twitter.com/bThydjh0rF
— TastefulLindy (@LindyTasteful) July 18, 2025
When men notice a pretty woman across the room, the old calculation was: Am I in her league? Can I come up with a creative enough opening line to get her attention? But now they have to worry about whether or not they’ll be labeled as creepy for even approaching, or worse, get labeled as a sex predator and be added to the #MeToo list for simply paying her a compliment.
Men are in a lose-lose situation. Our society demonizes their inherent masculinity as toxic the moment they enter this world. Their gaze is looked at as menacing. What used to be considered a sign of the relationship between men and women is now looked at as dangerous.
Our culture needs an overhaul that allows men the freedom to confidently approach a beautiful woman in the wild (not through their phone’s dating app). But maybe now that hot women are complaining about the lack of male attention, there will be a change.
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She is a perfect example of why honesty is the best policy and the decades old nonsense of lying to people only results in this bad behavior.
She is a fat pig and most likely a childish bore.
In nature, the male is most often more attractive than the females, to attract them.
Here we observe the female of the human species in her natural social media warped environment with her mating lamentations...
And “skin deep” isn’t a big selling point over the long haul
He’s basically taking his ego into his hands and giving her a chance to smash it with a rock..........
“High maintenance” goes through men’s minds.
“Is she a Christian,” also goes through mine.
I am thankfully out of the game, but I do recall this.
If the tats, purple hair, and nose rings werent a big enough of a turn off, what comes out of their mouths is enough to get most men to think about a cave in the mountains.
Good looking women often don’t understand this. They’re usually just wondering, ‘What’s wrong with me?”
The thing is, the men who are too swaggeringly confident aren’t the ones women want.
and has a tattoo.
Sara Eaton summed it up pretty well.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwrDynqZvu4
I might also recommend Paul Elam, Aaron Clarey, Better Bachelor, and Hoe Math to name a few. Honorable mention to Lin Watchhorn.
Elam, Clarey, Joker (Better Bachelor), & Hoe Math are the only voices I can immediately think of that hammer home men being the best versions of themselves, while taking caution in selecting women.
Wait! I thought approaching women was the same thing as rape!
It’s all so confusing.
Sounds like they are tiring of buying their own drinks.
And dinner for one and a cat..........
To flesh out ( pun intended ) the picture of this female, she obviously spends too much time admiring herself, and then expecting others to do the same via social media.
My Navy brother, now into his next "being with God," used to call these sorts "hard offs." His Army brother had chuckled about that phrase lo these many years later.
The unintended consequences of intended consequences....... 😁
They have been telling us for 60+ years that this is exactly what they want.
Now they have their nirvana and don’t like it................
so, is she looking for Mr. Right ? or Mr. Right Now...
The woman complaining has delusions of attractiveness.
That said, men are not approaching women because the risk-reward ratio is skewed.
Women who want “attention” want attention. They do not want a man. They want an ego boost and free drinks. No reward.
The risk is no longer getting shot down. The risk is getting photographed, put on social media, lied and exaggerated about, losing your job and having your life destroyed. Risk very high.
I once had a girl who liked me that I didn’t know existed spread horrid rumors about me when I was blissfully unware of her existence and had basically zero interaction with her. The rumors followed me for years, lately pre-social media.
Made me wisely gun-shy to the point I follow the Pence rule (his only good idea) and never have solo interaction with women I do not implicitly trust.
Men have always been intimidated by women they consider beautiful. Men have told me this themselves.
For a lot of guys, it’s not easy to approach a beautiful woman. He’s basically taking his ego into his hands and giving her a chance to slight it.
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most men are intimidated by a pretty woman, especially one that has a brain
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