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My New Vagina Won’t Make Me Happy
New York Times ^ | November 24, 2018 | Andrea Long Chu

Posted on 11/24/2018 4:56:51 PM PST by EdnaMode

Next Thursday, I will get a vagina. The procedure will last around six hours, and I will be in recovery for at least three months. Until the day I die, my body will regard the vagina as a wound; as a result, it will require regular, painful attention to maintain. This is what I want, but there is no guarantee it will make me happier. In fact, I don’t expect it to. That shouldn’t disqualify me from getting it.

I like to say that being trans is the second-worst thing that ever happened to me. (The worst was being born a boy.) Dysphoria is notoriously difficult to describe to those who haven’t experienced it, like a flavor. Its official definition — the distress some transgender people feel at the incongruence between the gender they express and the gender they’ve been socially assigned — does little justice to the feeling.

But in my experience, at least: Dysphoria feels like being unable to get warm, no matter how many layers you put on. It feels like hunger without appetite. It feels like getting on an airplane to fly home, only to realize mid-flight that this is it: You’re going to spend the rest of your life on an airplane. It feels like grieving. It feels like having nothing to grieve.

Many conservatives call this crazy. A popular right-wing narrative holds that gender dysphoria is a clinical delusion; hence, feeding that delusion with hormones and surgeries constitutes a violation of medical ethics. Just ask the Heritage Foundation fellow Ryan T. Anderson, whose book “When Harry Became Sally” draws heavily on the work of Dr. Paul McHugh, the psychiatrist who shut down the gender identity clinic at Johns Hopkins in 1979 on the grounds that trans-affirmative care meant “cooperating with a mental illness.”

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To: EdnaMode
Sadly this seems to be quite common. A large percentage of transgender people are still unhappy even after surgery.

And the ones who have surgery have a MUCH higher suicide rate.

They are just plain mentally ill.

21 posted on 11/24/2018 5:11:53 PM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (Democracy dies when Democrats refuse to accept the result of a democratic election they didn't win.)
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To: EdnaMode

Doesn’t sound like he should do it!


22 posted on 11/24/2018 5:12:06 PM PST by faithhopecharity ("Politicians aren't born, they're excreted." -Marcus Tillius Cicero (3 BCE))
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To: EdnaMode
Next Thursday, I will get a vagina. The procedure will last around six hours, and I will be in recovery for at least three months. Until the day I die, my body will regard the vagina as a wound; as a result, it will require regular, painful attention to maintain.

Other considerations aside this is why trans people should not be in the military. For the same reason that those with diabetes or a raft of other medical conditions debar individuals with them from the uniformed services. Deployed to some very primitive place such as Afghanistan individuals with various conditions degrade unit readiness just by being there. Why are the progs so devoid of basic common sense on this one? Apparently sexual identity trumps everything else.

23 posted on 11/24/2018 5:12:41 PM PST by robowombat (Orthodox)
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To: EdnaMode

Gender dysphoria is a clinical delusion; hence, feeding that delusion with hormones and surgeries constitutes a violation of medical ethics


24 posted on 11/24/2018 5:13:36 PM PST by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: McGruff


25 posted on 11/24/2018 5:13:52 PM PST by BookmanTheJanitor
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To: EdnaMode

Maybe they can start a trade in market.


26 posted on 11/24/2018 5:14:17 PM PST by ImJustAnotherOkie (All I know is what I read in the papers.)
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To: EdnaMode

It’s a destructive mental illness.


27 posted on 11/24/2018 5:17:41 PM PST by Grimmy (equivocation is but the first step along the road to capitulation)
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To: EdnaMode

“Next Thursday, I will get a vagina.”

No. You won’t.

L


28 posted on 11/24/2018 5:20:56 PM PST by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: EdnaMode
Take it from my father, a pediatrician, who once remarked to me that he would no sooner prescribe puberty blockers to a gender dysphoric child than he would give a distemper shot to someone who believed she was a dog.

and there it is...

29 posted on 11/24/2018 5:21:24 PM PST by Chode ( WeÂ’re America, Bitch!)
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To: EdnaMode

This ugly fat twit needs to honor his original body.

Unless, this was originally a woman who FEELS that one vagina is not enough.
(Not going there and you shouldn’t either.)


30 posted on 11/24/2018 5:21:24 PM PST by Veto! (Veto! (Political Correctness Offends Me))
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To: EdnaMode

This guy doesn’t seem to understand that dysphoria is endemic to all people in this world.


31 posted on 11/24/2018 5:23:32 PM PST by reasonisfaith (What are the implications if the Resurrection of Christ is a true event in history? The)
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To: EdnaMode
A large percentage of transgender people are still unhappy even after surgery.

Unhappy and in a great deal of debilitating pain. The trans lobby and their enablers do their best to keep a lid on the gory details of what these surgeries entail, making them sound as routine as a breast augmentation. The truth is, it is very messy business rife with complications, infections, necrosis, and can leave patients unable to do routine tasks like going to the bathroom without extreme agony.

Enabling this transgender madness is medical malpractice. This poor man needs mental health treatment. Society has failed him.

32 posted on 11/24/2018 5:26:08 PM PST by Drew68 (Twitter @TheRealDrew68 // Click my profile page for great Russian pop music videos.)
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To: EdnaMode

After aggravating all his relatives and its one friend it will spend or have some insurance company pay for a grossly overpriced operation(s) and then will probably commit suicide within a few years.


34 posted on 11/24/2018 5:26:46 PM PST by RetiredTexasVet (Start using cash and checks or the elite class and bankers will make "cashless" the norm.)
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To: EdnaMode

“Gender dysphoria” is nothing more than an extremely desperate cry for attention and is almost guaranteed, if catered to, to end in suicide.


35 posted on 11/24/2018 5:27:08 PM PST by thoughtomator (Number of arrested coup conspirators to date: 2)
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To: HamiltonJay

Yeah, HE admits he’s suicidal. It’s almost inconceivable that a surgeon would operate on this freak. He’ll really be depressed when he wakes up in enormous pain.


36 posted on 11/24/2018 5:27:13 PM PST by GnuThere
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To: madprof98
This guy is crazy as hell and pretty much admits it. In fact, he says he wasn’t suicidal til he started taking hormones, and now he is.

Let me guess. Lupron.

Used to block testosterone production, for good reasons and bad. "Suicidal ideation" is one of the side effects.

37 posted on 11/24/2018 5:27:55 PM PST by Lee N. Field (Come, behold the works of the LORD, how he has brought desolations on the earth.)
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To: EdnaMode

This man may really and genuinely feel like he should have been born a woman and he may spend every day wishing he were born a woman. However, wishing to be a woman and literally feeling like a woman trapped in a man’s body are two completely separate things. As the Dr. McHugh of Johns Hopkins mentioned in the article once wrote, he had conducted psychiatric examinations of many men who claimed they felt like women stuck in men’s bodies. What Dr. McHugh always found was that these men followed one of two patterns: either they were highly aroused by fantasizing about being female, or they had severe mental issues that they mistakenly blamed on being male instead of facing the root causes. Either way, when Dr. McHugh would ask these patients to describe female issues, they never showed much interest in topics that legitimately do interest women. For example, they were never interested in discussing menstrual cycles, which is a topic that many women do discuss (but never when men are around).

In any case, when/if this unfortunate deluded man has this major mutilation done to his body, he can be assured that he will never physically feel what a woman feels.


38 posted on 11/24/2018 5:28:54 PM PST by exDemMom (Current visual of the hole the US continues to dig itself into: http://www.usdebtclock.org/)
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To: BookmanTheJanitor

Bluto !?!


39 posted on 11/24/2018 5:29:22 PM PST by Big Red Badger (Despised by the Despicable!)
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To: EdnaMode
Andrea Long Chu

CHU?? Is he identifying as Chinese too?


40 posted on 11/24/2018 5:30:50 PM PST by montag813
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