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Christmas Memories, Cookies, Candies, and Desserts.
CookingWithCarlo.com ^ | Nov. 26 2005 | Carlo3b, Dad, Chef, Author

Posted on 11/26/2005 7:32:00 AM PST by carlo3b

 

Christmas Memories, Cookies, Candies, and Desserts

For me, it was the official start of the Christmas season, seeing the matriarchs gather in coffee klatches and recipes exchanges. As a little tike, anything that signaled the approach of Christmas was enough to cause excitement around our home. Watching my great-grandmother summon the elderly women of our family and neighborhood, was a sure sign that big things were heating up in our little kitchen. These beautiful women were dignified and almost aristocratic in their black mourning dresses, with clouded stockings, and clumpy shoes. I can still recall the gentle scent of lavender and rose perfumes as they shuffled to their places around our modest kitchen table. Those mixtures of colognes and coffee were far from the only wonderful smells that began to fill our home and hearts at this glorious time of the year. Fabulous homemade Italian pastries were a right of passage for these gatherings. Baking for the clan was a near sacred honor that my great-grandmother cherished..

We were a typical nuclear family for those times. A working man, my great-uncle, a stay at home wife, my-great aunt, my retired great-grandmother, and great-grandfather, and of course yours truly. Our familial arrangement was not unique, most households had extended family members, and everyone had a place on the clan hierarchy. Women generally ruled the roost, and menfolk earned the bacon. Grandmothers, at least in my family, routinely prepared the meals. Wives raised the offspring and kept the house, meaning the housework and shopping, and those lucky enough to have grandpas, had the benefit of wisdom and history that could only come from invaluable, accumulated life experiences, and vivid recollections..

Our homes were mostly small walk-up apartments, located in the bowels of the inner city of Chicago. They were called, "cold water flats", meaning each apartment had to make their own hot water with a silver colored water heater tanks, located in a convenient corner of the kitchen. If you wanted hot water you had to turn it on and cautiously feel the sides of the tank to see how close it was becoming hot. It was surely crude, but efficient enough to accomplish the job so nobody complained.  However, you had to be mindful, not to forget to turn the tank off when the task was complete, the explosive consequences were all too frightening and frequent..

If you were lucky, as we were, you had heat furnished by a landlord in the form of cast iron coiled radiators. The heat was generated by coal fired furnaces, located in dark damp cellars. These subterranean dungeons were also called "the basement", which also housed whatever passed for a clothes washers in those days. I mostly remember those radiators, because they clanged from expanding heat filled pipes on cold winter mornings as we waited for the heat to raise to a reasonable warmth to venture out from under our heavy blankets. The radiators were sparsely placed, usually in the busiest areas of the home. We often warmed and dried clothes on this solitary heat source on frigid winter mornings. More than once I left my chilled trousers on too long, and burned myself on an overheated zipper. Chicago winters were especially cold, and flimsy windows were typically drafty. What was a blessing in the stifling summer heat, a window or skylight, was truly a detriment on cold winter nights.

A single low wattage light bulb hung conspicuously over the center of the white porcelain topped kitchen table. The light cord had a protruding plug for connecting a clothes iron. The light had an on-off string which dangled down low enough so the shortest member of the family could reach it. Every home had an icebox, with a small refrigerated compartment, and a square slot that held a cube of solid ice. The ice block needed to be replenished at least once a week by a gentleman who was aptly named, "the iceman". He carried the heavy block of ice 3 flights of stairs from his waterlogged horse drawn wagon. The gas cooking stove was a 4 burner antique, with an unregulated double oven that could only be lit with a stick match. The kitchen sink was one compartment with a long drain board. It had a single cold water faucet and a sturdy garden hose that connected it to the hot water tank. All of this was crude and simple by today's standards, but it was all that was needed to prepare at least two meals a day, a hardy breakfast, and a scrumptious 4 course, made-from-scratch dinner.

The homemade meals, complete with fresh bread were prepared with meticulous care each and every day, rain or shine. Needless to say, from this dim, sparsely equipped kitchen that made cooking and baking for our large family gatherings all that more remarkable. I learned to cook standing on a kitchen chair at that humble stove, under the watchful eye of my loving great-grandmother. She stood under 5 feet, but she was a giant to all that knew her. I think of her every day when I shamefully complain as the time comes to prepare my family meals at my fully equipped gourmet kitchen..

Our bathroom was small and simple. It had a top tank, gravity flushing toilet that sported a pull chain with a ivory handle. The lavatory was a tiny cold water basin that had circular chips from some unknown historic calamity, and a claw footed bathtub that was enormous, with a rubber plug on a chain.. The hot water had to be bucketed in from the kitchen sink, which was unfortunately located at the far end of the adjoining room. The bucket brigade took 2 people, 3 loads each. There was a small gas heater that furnished plenty of heat on the floor, but the small whitewashed window above the tub had a constant whistling from frigid air that seemed to be unobstructed and unending. It made standing for towel drying an olympic speed event..

The apartment had 2 small bedrooms, each only large enough to hold a double bed, and squatty art deco styled dresser. Each dresser was equipped with a mirror and on it's polished top lay assorted decorative perfume bottles and each had a matching sterling silver brush set, which was dutifully arranged at all times. The front room of the home was in reality, our living room, although we hardly ever lived there. The long narrow room held a large sofa, which doubled as my bed, a matching side chair, a huge floor model radio, and a mufti-bulb lamp with a oversized shade with dangling decorative fringe. An imposing chandelier hung prominently in the center of the vaulted ceiling. The floors were all buffed wood, and covered with assorted throw rugs that forever gathered under foot traffic. Our kitchen floor was covered with a patterned linoleum that had long ago began to show a well worn path. The bathroom was a beautifully tiled mosaic, in alternating black and white octagon shapes. At strategic locations were yellowed photographs of unknown origins in various shaped ornate frames, and on every flat surface aside from the kitchen were dozens of tiny knickknacks, and candles..

We lived in 4 simple rooms, but I never thought of it in those terms. In my mind it was a mansion, filled with love and devotion to one another. We were near penniless but rich with respectability and honor. We had all that we needed and enough left over to share with others. Everyone I knew loved me, and I loved and respected each of them. The family expected the best from me and I did my best to fulfill my duty to my good name, in their well deserved honor..

Just recalling these golden, olden days is a treasure in itself, because it brings me back to an era that laid the foundation of my life and that of my own family. It reminds me of the importance we placed and the respect we had for the generational roots and traditions that were instilled at an early age.  Those roots were planted deep and would ultimately shape my character. Cooking and baking wasn't just food in our home, it was our women's only gift to give. These recipe choosing assemblages were not called just to pick the heirloom cookies that were going to dominate their lives for the month leading up to Christmas. This was a time-honored task and was the solemn obligation our women placed in making their modest but treasured gifts so very special. Those dear aged women demonstrated their devotion to the family not by buying our presents, but by caring for us, the giving of themselves with their own loving hands..

The men of our family proudly gave up their youth, much too early in life and they did it voluntarily. They fought for their country on distant battlefields they couldn't even pronounce. They risked their lives to insure a freedom for a future they couldn't be sure they would live to enjoy. When they returned, they worked tirelessly to support a fine family of their own. These hardy men gave us an honorable name and a high bar in which to strive. They each raised respectable children that proved what they were made of.  Our forefathers scratched an indelible place in our history and in our hearts. They earned our love, our gratitude, and our everlasting respect..

The stalwarts of our family, our beautiful women, have given us our sense of worth, our humanity, the true meaning of love for family. Their selfless sacrifice, placed a high value on sharing, fairness, and a soft simple abiding love. Their talent was devotion, their legacy was in the future of the family traditions passed on in perpetuity.. It is in their name I pass many of my family recipes on to you, for you to share with your family, and hopefully with others far and wide.. Enjoy.. Carlo

MERRY CHRISTMAS, AND GOD BLESS YOU,
GOD BLESS AMERICA.



TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Food
KEYWORDS: christmas; cookbook; food; freepers; freerepublic; fun; gifts; holiday; legacycookbook; nostalgia
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To: carlo3b

Prayer bump.


201 posted on 11/27/2005 6:57:12 PM PST by tiki
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To: Cindy

That sounds like the one my wife makes. She puts frosting on it sometime and sometime not. She made them this morning with out. She has been making them 5 or 6 years and they are very soft and tasty.

She makes 40 to 60 dozen cookies a week...


202 posted on 11/27/2005 7:05:30 PM PST by tubebender (Why is it we never have time to visit family when they are alive but can always make their funerals)
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To: tubebender

Wowser.
You're one lucky guy.


203 posted on 11/27/2005 7:07:08 PM PST by Cindy
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To: carlo3b; Brad's Gramma

Prayers for your upcoming surgery. NO surgery is good until it's over and everything's "fixed".

Blessings.......

"TT", Beth & Nana


204 posted on 11/27/2005 7:10:31 PM PST by Texas Termite (We have a new star in the heavens :))
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To: carlo3b
Prayers are sent Carlo- and hugs too.
205 posted on 11/27/2005 7:11:08 PM PST by Diva Betsy Ross (A fun way to send care packages to troops: anysoldier.com)
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To: carlo3b; trussell

Prayers again and thanks for such a nice thread!

Yummies!!

Hugs....

"TT", Beth & Nana


206 posted on 11/27/2005 7:12:07 PM PST by Texas Termite (We have a new star in the heavens :))
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To: carlo3b

Prayers on the way for you my friend.

Matthew 18:20


207 posted on 11/27/2005 7:15:25 PM PST by glock rocks ("God's gift to you is life itself. What you do with it is your gift to God." - Leo Buscaglia)
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To: carlo3b; 68-69TonkinGulfYatchClub

Prayers up.


208 posted on 11/27/2005 7:16:41 PM PST by amom
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To: Cindy
They are for the free coffee bar in the waiting room of our sons business. I am merely the lowly Court Taster.

She has never eaten any of her own cookies except for little bits I offer her. She has been doing this for at least 20 years. She uses a 30 inch Dacor home convection oven and can do three sheets of 24 cookies each at a time. It will do six sheets but she runs out of hands and fingers...
209 posted on 11/27/2005 7:16:56 PM PST by tubebender (Why is it we never have time to visit family when they are alive but can always make their funerals)
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To: carlo3b

Offering my prayers


210 posted on 11/27/2005 7:19:31 PM PST by 68-69TonkinGulfYachtClub (Please answer our prayers)
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To: carlo3b

Prayers going up now for you and your family! Thank you for everything you do.


211 posted on 11/27/2005 7:20:12 PM PST by freeangel ( (free speech is only good until someone else doesn't like what you say))
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To: glock rocks
My wife has read every book Leo Bucaglia had written. We would sit for hours while she read to me...
212 posted on 11/27/2005 7:21:15 PM PST by tubebender (Why is it we never have time to visit family when they are alive but can always make their funerals)
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To: tubebender

"Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain."

-Leo Buscaglia

284 posted on 09/28/2003 8:00:24 AM MDT by carlo3b (http://www.CookingWithCarlo.com)

213 posted on 11/27/2005 7:27:30 PM PST by glock rocks ("God's gift to you is life itself. What you do with it is your gift to God." - Leo Buscaglia)
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To: carlo3b

We love you back, Carlo. Prayers for a quick recovery and a good outcome, my FRiend!!!


214 posted on 11/27/2005 8:02:51 PM PST by Humidston (Sweet dreams, TC. Save me a seat, ok?)
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To: carlo3b
Carlo,

I'm in no mood for more sick friends. ;-) Know that you will be in my prayers until we hear you are better.

May the Lord Bless you and yours.

215 posted on 11/27/2005 8:13:29 PM PST by HoustonCurmudgeon (A right wing Christian, not part of the Christian Right)
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To: carlo3b

What took you so long to ask, ya big dummy! Next time, don't wait until the night before.....


216 posted on 11/27/2005 8:17:25 PM PST by Maigrey (1-800-pryrwrr. Just a ring away... In Honor of Texas Cowboy. Your legacy shall live on in us....)
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To: carlo3b

Prayers proffered, my old friend.


217 posted on 11/27/2005 8:18:45 PM PST by nopardons
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To: carlo3b

Sweetie, you know you always have my prayers.

Let me know how you're doing as soon as you are up to it.

{{{{{HUGGGGGS]]]]]


218 posted on 11/27/2005 8:23:05 PM PST by jellybean (George Allen 2008)
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To: carlo3b; Brad's Gramma

Prayers for you; that the surgery is successful, and that you heal quickly

God Bless and have a Blessed Christmas.


219 posted on 11/27/2005 8:32:13 PM PST by DLfromthedesert (Texas Cowboy...graduated to Glory)
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To: tubebender

That is incredible.
You marrid a very special woman.


220 posted on 11/27/2005 8:52:05 PM PST by Cindy
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