Posted on 08/24/2021 4:43:39 PM PDT by Scarpetta
My husband of 20 years got the "vax" in order to travel for work. He was not resistant to the jab. In fact, he gladly took it. He has repeatedly told me I'm foolish for not getting the shot. I am heathly and hale and have weighed my options. I will not take it ... ever.
He told me to not mention the mandatory vaccine being foisted on military personnel in a letter to my son in basic training at Fort Benning. I told him to go eff himself. I can't stay married to a man this weak minded.
I can't believe I am with a man who is telling me to watch what I write to our son. I can't believe he thinks this "vax" is legit. I will dissolve this marriage before I let anyone stick a needle in my body.
” If you are ok living and dying alone continue with your outrage and strategy.”
If you think about it, almost everyone dies alone. Simultaneous death is exceedingly rare. And in the end, you always do it alone... at least on this end.
You may want to suggest to him that you both see other men.
I’m in the middle of year 42, and I think your MIL was a little optimistic. I’ll reserve judgement until I see the easy years come along.
Don't pay any attention to this pathetic example of Dunning-Kruger. He will tell you how to live your life while his life is probably...well, predictable. What say you, mumblegummer? Speak, boy!
Your husband is way out of line—for sure.
Before you go the divorce route you should have a little “heart to heart”...in a quiet area...speaking softly but firmly...and looking him straight in the eyes....
“These are my boundaries—you may not cross them...”
If he continues to try to run your life, then imho it is divorce time.
Better or worse.
I know you’re a loner. Used to be cool to read your posts. What the hell happened to you?
I think I have a new crush.
This is a ridiculous post.
And you are falling for it. Is that your picture next to gullible in the dictionary?
Scarpetta your marriage is more important than this garbage! I’m proud of your stand and you should not budge. Be as determined to love the dude God has given to you for 20 years. No man is a hero to his wife anyway.
So you want to divorce your husband because he isn’t stupid and doesn’t believe the lies being told about the vaccine that you want him to believe. And you want to air this dirty laundry on a public web forum?
I think you’ve lost the concept of commitment.
A belief, yes. But, there was one reason for me to take the vaccine. I am a missionary. The country where I’m assigned requires all aliens to be vaccinated. For the sake of the Gospel, I stepped out in faith and have been fully vaccinated.
Sadly, the country is not right now processing visas and so we’re still in the US. Please pray they will start processing work visas and we can (finally) return.
Get off the internet.
Uh, phrasing. (sorry, couldn't resist)
I meant him choosing to take the vaccine and you choosing not to. What you write or don’t write to your son is a completely different issue.
What about the vows you took in frontof everyone and God where you said through good and bad, richer or poorer, til death?
Historically divorce was granted for fault. Not simply because they “dont like each other.” Besides people dealt with that and stayed married.
This is why i tell any guy i care about never to get married. Theres no point if someone can leave for any emotional whim. And the guy usually suffers financially.
I think the judge is going to show you his idea of justice.
Amen
Disagree. If the woman believes a vaccination will endanger her life and her husband won’t stand by her decision not to take it, they should’ve not been married in the first place!
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