What about the vows you took in frontof everyone and God where you said through good and bad, richer or poorer, til death?
Historically divorce was granted for fault. Not simply because they “dont like each other.” Besides people dealt with that and stayed married.
This is why i tell any guy i care about never to get married. Theres no point if someone can leave for any emotional whim. And the guy usually suffers financially.
Marriage is a big decision—and carries a lot of risk—particularly since people can change over the years and grow apart.
That is why it is critically important that there be shared values—and the couple needs to have been together long enough to “stress test” the relationship before making the big decision to get married.
But—even with all that, sometimes “stuff happens” and this vaccine nightmare is an excellent example.
I do think serious value differences on vaccines are divorce-worthy, particularly if either party is trying to shame or humiliate or intimidate the other party into giving in....
That type of behavior is emotional abuse and is never OK.
Tell me about it. I speak from experience.