Posted on 10/06/2005 5:47:00 AM PDT by Paul Ciniraj
“HELPER HINTS” SUBMITTED BY WIVES (Not listed in any particular order)
1) Be my best friend.
2) I need to know you call my name in your prayers
3) Hold me when I cry
4) Show and tell me that you love me often, and leave no doubt about it in my mind.
5) Show me your approval when I make a decision that is good.
6) Talk to me about what’s important to you and to me.
7) Listen to me and don’t treat me like I am stupid and don’t know anything.
8) I need intimacy, and not just sexually. Anyone can have sex, but it takes a REAL man to be intimate.
9) Make me feel wanted and trusted in the things I can do for you.
10) Don’t try to make me like your mother.
11) Remember that I am your “Help Mate.” I am not someone to be stomped on and just used for your “whims.”
12) Understand that I like to have our family near and want all relationships to be what God intended.
13) Comfort and hold me.
14) Be a one man woman.
15) Take the spiritual lead in giving me (and our children) direction and guidance.
16) Ask me for my help – it is good to be regarded as a helper and useful.
17) Make appropriate adjustments to your lifestyle and preferences as a married / family man.
18) Treat me with love and respect in the company of others.
19) Show appreciation and affirmation.
20) Tell me you love me often, even if you think I should already know this.
21) Show affection for no “reason” at all.
22) Make me feel as though I am still desirable.
23) Be devoted to caring, giving protection, and affirming your love.
24) Encourage me to realize my goals, and don’t put me down for trying something new. Try to understand how I feel and listen to me when I try to tell you something that is important to us or that is hurting us.
Just remember that what women want and what they say they want usually have only a nodding acquaintance. ;)
1) A woman who doesn't show up with a list of demands. ;)
Not this again!
Oy Vey....
Well, me being me, my list would include "Do not bother me if I am watching Football, NASCAR, NHRA, boxing or UFC."
Big Oy Vey....
LOL
MM
That is pretty inclusive. I think men would have much the same list, although most men won't cry. They should, it would make them feel better.
Not true. My late husband met many of them and he was not gay.
Sure, Sweetie. I will do that while you are taking out the trash. LOL!
I want Mel Gibson.
Oh, Steve. You have that all wrong. Let me count the ways!
Huh? What does that mean? I thought that they have a happy marriage.
...anticipating count...
We cry.
You'll never see it.
It'll never happen.
"...sit it next to your beer so that you can bring it out when the best
thing that has ever happened to you walks in the room."
It's bad to give beer to your dogs.
I would like a nice engagement ring, but not too large or gaudy. I like simple things.
Exercise with me so that we will both be happy with my body. :)
Sure, it's happy. How many happy left-wingers do you know?
Those two wouldn't know an honest smile if it bit them.
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