...anticipating count...
1- I would never try to change you. After all, I fell in love with the man that you are. Please do the same for me.
2- Let's be close, but we both need our space some of the time.
3- We will both remember that modern life is in part about our needs and responsibilities.
4- When I ask that we talk, let's share our opinions on the subject and work out a compromise that we can both be happy with.