A book for women hunting a husband has enraged Americans. LAUREL IVES reports There is bad news for women who see in themselves a shadow, however faint, of the demanding characters in Sex and the City. If you haven't yet found a husband or even a boyfriend I'm afraid you only have yourself to blame. You are too fussy, talkative and independent. You need to lower your standards, go out with the ugly man you're avoiding, and keep quiet over dinner, thus demonstrating your feminine qualities by listening to him. So says Laura Doyle, the American author of a much-anticipated...