She knew. Despite claims to the contrary, Dina Matos McGreevey knew former NJ Gov. Jim McGreevey was gay long before he announced it to the world....... "By 2002, just before Golan Cipel resigned, she knew," said a friend.... McGreevey says he had an affair with Cipel, whom he appointed as his homeland-security adviser in January 2002. In his memoir, McGreevey recounts how his wife - catching him on the phone with Cipel in the summer of 2002 - angrily asked, "Are you gay?" Cipel resigned August 2002. The couple began dating in 1997........ By 1999, those in McGreevey's inner circle...