Even though you haven’t specifically named the people involved, discussing these children’s situation in an online forum is totally out of line & inappropriate, IMO.
Under the thin disguise of asking strangers for “prayers” YOU are simply venting your anger & badmouthing the mother, in an anonymous safe space, in exchange for support & affirmation of YOUR side of YOUR story, presented very manipulatively, without any alternative view allowed.
Which of course makes me wonder what the mother’s side of the story REALLY is.
Plus, I wonder what other sly stuff you might be saying or doing in real life, which might well be contributing to real, & negative, consequences for these children.