"I consider it perfectly acceptable to hate those who hate you. In fact, it's a survival trait."
Unfortunately for you then, God doesn't. Hate is never OK, defend yourself? Absolutely, but never hate.
43 You have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbor, and hate thy enemy. 44 But I say to you, Love your enemies: do good to them that hate you: and pray for them that persecute and calumniate you
Matthew 5:43-44