Posted on 09/09/2015 5:22:41 AM PDT by Kaslin
After nearly eight years of the East Wing's politics of mope and complain, it's refreshing to see a presidential candidate's spouse who is always smiling.
Candy Carson -- wife of GOP 2016 hopeful Dr. Ben Carson, mother of three sons, and grandmother of two -- is the anti-Michelle Obama. She's a quiet but confident ray of sunshine: down-to-earth, devoutly Christian and proudly patriotic.
While Mrs. Obama first gained notoriety carping about racism and trashing America, Mrs. Carson helped kick off her husband's 2016 bid by playing the violin with a gospel choir as they performed a joyful, rousing rendition of The Star-Spangled Banner.
I met the couple, who recently celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary, a few weeks ago during a campaign stop in Colorado Springs. Dr. Carson's dazzling career as a Johns Hopkins pediatric neurosurgeon is well known. But Mrs. Carson's own personal story is remarkable as a standalone exemplar of the American Dream achieved.
The daughter of a teacher and a factory worker, Candy Carson grew up poor in inner-city Detroit with four siblings. She earned a scholarship to attend Yale University, where she met her future husband and fellow Detroit native. Mrs. Carson triple-majored in music, psychology and pre-med. She played violin for the Yale Symphony and Bach Society. Just as her church-organist mother insisted that all her children learn to play instruments, Mrs. Carson formed a string quartet (two violins, cello and viola) with her own three sons dubbed the "Carson Four."
Feminists loved Mrs. Obama's relentless jokes openly denigrating her spouse's shortcomings as a husband and father on the campaign trail. Victory did not improve her dour disposition. Even after moving into the White House and enjoying multiple taxpayer-financed vacations around the world, President Obama's bitter half bizarrely lamented her plight as a "busy single mother."
So. Put. Upon.
By contrast, Mrs. Carson revels in her role as family matriarch and life partner in her husband's endeavors. "The calling of a neurosurgeon isn't easy to live out, and Ben has been required to go above and beyond the call of duty many times," she writes in her upcoming memoir, "A Doctor in the House." "The life of a neurosurgeon's wife isn't much easier. But it's all been worth it. Together, we've been through poverty, tragedy, wealth, and joy, and I've come to love Ben more as each year has passed."
Mrs. Obama regularly grumbles about juggling her various roles. "Finding balance has been the struggle of my life and my marriage, in being a woman, being a professional, being a mother," she kvetched to Ladies Home Journal. "What women have the power to do, through our own experiences, is to push that balance out into the culture. If people are happier, and they're more engaged, and they have jobs they can value that allow them to respect and value their homes, that makes the home life stronger."
Struggle this, struggle that. Time for another Aspen ski vacation or carbon footprint-enlarging jaunt to Milan!
Elitist liberal working mothers expend an astounding amount of energy letting everyone know how hard they toil, how much "sacrifice" they've made, and how unhappy they are if they're not working outside the home earning "respect" from other elitist liberal working mothers.
Meanwhile, moms like Candy Carson operate in a no-whine zone. It is a blessing to have so many opportunities and choices. And there's no time to waste.
In addition to raising the Carson children, co-founding the Carson Scholars Fund charity (which has awarded nearly 7,000 scholarships across the country to academically gifted students of all backgrounds who give back to their communities), and serving as sounding board and co-author of three of the Carsons' New York Times bestsellers, Mrs. Carson worked in trust administration, insurance and real estate. She also found time to earn a masters degree in business from Johns Hopkins and conduct the University of Maryland Medical Center Chamber Players.
Like the Obamas, the Carsons have experienced their share of racial discrimination and prejudice. But it does not define them. Neither have they let their phenomenal success get to their heads. "Did I ever imagine I would live in a place like this?" Mrs. Carson reflected in an interview at her elegant home with Baltimore Magazine. "Of course not. Growing up poor, you try to be a good steward of the money you have."
What a refreshing change from the arrogant profligacy that has marked the past two presidential terms in Washington. The most common refrain you'll hear from people who meet the couple is how humble and gracious they are. They've made sure to instill the values of thrift, personal responsibility and private philanthropy in their children. Both Carsons emphasized in our visit their profound concern for their grandchildren's future, the abandonment of constitutional principles, and the fiscal cliff that young generations of Americans now face.
Attitude is everything. The narcissism and nihilism of the Beltway stand in stark contrast to the faith of the Carsons in God, their country and each other. However their political adventure turns out, they are "ready to follow ... whatever He has in store for us next," Mrs. Carson writes.
Keep smiling, work hard, be grateful, and play on. This is what makes America great.
Classly men tend to marry classy wives just as classless men tend to marry classless wives.
Candy Carson is the jewel amongst the piles of coal.
In other words, water meets its own level.
And so does sewage.
Exactly
She’s not going to be the next Republican First Lady but I feel sorry for whoever is. First Lady’s are fair game now.
Agreed.
I like Carson. From everything I've seen he's really a nice man. Unfortunately, at this particular stage in our country a "nice" man isn't someone we need to lead the country. Given the choice of voting for him or some democrat, I'd have no problem pulling the lever, but I think I want someone scrappier in charge. Probably not as scrappy as Trump. Cruz is still my preferred choice. Any of these 3 men could do the job though.
I pray that God continues to bless Mr. Carson, and that he will be able to serve our country in some capacity. He's still reasonably young. Maybe he just needs a bit more seasoning.
I think that Carson is a very, very good man.
At this stage of the game, though, I don't think that we need a good man. We need someone who's not afraid to be a @@#%#@!!$#. Who doesn't bend, or break. Who is not afraid to take a firm negotiating position, and not be afraid to walk away from the table. Who's not afraid to take the lumps that go along with making hard decisions.
In short, probably not most of the GOP.
Walker, definitely - he's already shown his spine in dealing with Dems in Wisconsin. I've no idea why he's not running on that, instead of trying to blend in with the rest of the pack. Probably will be his downfall, at least in this election cycle.
Cruz probably fits the bill.
Trump poses correctly, but I'm still not 100% convinced. One thing that I can say with certainty about Trump is that he has enough money not to care what others think, which is a double-edged sword. It's good, so long as we agree, then...it's not. No gray areas to be found here.
The rest of the pack? I think that they're too worried about getting invited to all the right country club parties, than doing what needs to be done.
I have no idea who I will vote for next year, but I have no qualms about DR Carson’s quiet and polite demeanor.
The man has nerves of steel.
He’s a neurosurgeon, one of the best in the world. Not only is he scary smart, he’s determined, methodical, focused, and relentless. Tough as nails.
My only concern is his lack of political experience, but he can easily surround himself with people who know the system. Dr. Ben Carson is a quick study.
Talk softly and carry a big stick ....
That's racist. /sarc
I don’t know how those nerves of steel would hold up against formidable political enemies. As much as we all hate Obama, he WAS schooled in the sewer of Chicago politics and he knows how to play the game. He’s a power-hungry megalomaniac and gets his way no matter what, always to the detriment of the nation and its safety. I fear Carson would get steamrollered and not know what hit him. The White House is not the place to try to learn bare knuckles politics.
I went to the original article, and there’s no pics of this woman. Looks like they would have bothered to show the reader a picture of the person that’s the topic of the article.
I wanted to know what she looked as well.
I can’t remember how to post pictures but here’s a link - hope it comes up.
At Yale? This is almost incomprehensible.
See Post#16
It shows this picture at the top of the article
Wow, Candy looks like a lot like her hubby. ;d
What they could find a pic?
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