Posted on 02/26/2006 4:41:16 AM PST by SheLion
A WOMAN in a wheelchair must go outside into the cold weather for a cigarette even though she is 93 - because smoking is banned in her nursing home.
Gladys Gornall, known as Chris, of the Norwood Lodge Nursing Home in Nore Road, Portishead, took up smoking 10 years ago after her husband died.
Daughter Joan Mock, 68, says it is the only thing she has left that keeps her happy.
And she says she fears her mother is more likely to die from exposure to cold winter weather than from smoking.
Mrs Mock said: "She's 93, she's in a wheelchair and she has to smoke outside. Last week I had to stand outside with her with an umbrella over her while it rained. We know it's not politically correct any more, but she is old and she will die of hypothermia rather than smoking at this rate."
Mrs Gornall said: "I'm sick and tired of going out there in the cold. I'm fed up with the whole situation. What else have I got to look forward to? I've got no other pleasures."
Mrs Mock said the home used to have a small room where smokers could light up. But she said the smoking ban in the building has now been enforced for health and safety reasons.
She said: "For God's sake, what can she do? There aren't any other smokers in the home now. This is all she has left as her bit of independence. It's so pathetic."
She said relatives of other residents at the home have sympathised with Mrs Gornall's plight.
The only real health problem the pensioner has is osteoarthritis in her knees.
Mrs Mock said: "She says they aren't going to stop her having a fag."
Mrs Gornall moved into the home with her husband, Albert, in 1996 but he died within weeks of their arrival. She took up smoking soon after his death.
Gill Lee, group operations manager for Belmont Care, which owns the home, said the non-smoking policy had been in place since before Mrs Gornall went into the nursing home. She said: "We've had a policy for years in Norwood Lodge of no smoking, mainly on health and safety grounds.
"Mrs Gornall, her daughter and her social worker had a meeting with the matron in May 2005 to explain to her the no-smoking policy in the home, and this was confirmed to her in writing."
She said none of the staff smoke inside the building. But she would not comment on whether the company's policy on enforcing the smoking ban had been tightened.
And she said allowing Mrs Gornall just to smoke in her own room would be "even worse".
She said: "To allow smoking in their room would cause even more health and safety issues."
See post #139
Try living and smoking outside in northern MAINE! heh!
Turn your O2 bottle upside down; better yet, ask your gas supplier why you shouldn't.
That reminds me.... snow promised for next week.
BAD EMOTIONAL PROBLEM! How about stopping with the personal abuse. YOU don't KNOW me!
And why, pray tell, should I sit in a restaurant for 1-2 hours..............pay for the meal AND a very good tip, and not be able to smoke. Shoot! I can do that at home, save money, and smoke whenever I want. Why of why would I PAY for that personal abuse???!!!!
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Well, I have a generic lower back disease so I would bet that YOU can wall further then ME!
Did anyone ever tell you that you smell of dirty diapers and rancid formula?
Tips for going outside in the cold.
2. Wear loose fitting clothing.
3. Keep dry. Use an umbrella and boots if it's raining or snowing.
4. Wear mittens instead of fingered gloves.
5. Wear a stocking cap and make sure to cover ears and neck.
6. Wear plenty of clothes
If it were the business or property owner who had set these rules in place, it wouldn't be the government who is fining the owners for non-compliance.
Please read post #140
Vaseline.
I knew I should have let that smelly diaper just lie there.
I don't think that would be neccesary. I have used them on their sides while working in the field fixing bull dozer blade bushings, and cutting on all kinds of dangerous stuff. Still, after 17 years, have'nt seen 'em explode. I'll bet you would all get nervous... cigarettes around acetylene, propane, acetone,paint,toulene you name it. We have to get the job done, no time for P.C. Crazy 'ol welders, and mechanics anyway!
If you would read the article instead of raging about "twits" who have views that differ from yours you would know that the woman is in the UK.
All I'm asking, is for some people to be considerate of others. You know, I'm only 43. I would still like to live a little and have a little fun, too. When people say things like, why don't you just stay at home; that is pretty inconsiderate. I still work 40 hours a week, I'm a full time college student,I'm married and I still have things to do outside of the house.
We never smoked in anyone's home that didn't smoke( no matter how much they said "go ahead") and we never smoked in restaurants.
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The daughter's concern is commendable. TAKE HER MOMMY TO HER DAUGHTER'S HOUSE SO SHE CAN SMOKE!
But allowing her to smoke in a public place intrudes on the rights of others who have no need to inhale carbon monoxide and tar.
It's not coming through the plumbing or the vents, if anything it is coming from minor voids at the joints where floor and bottom level ceiling meet; apartments are designed to prevent smoke infiltration.
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