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What "Gay" Marriage Will Mean for our Children
Mission America ^ | 2/22/04 | Linda P. Harvey

Posted on 02/22/2004 4:50:09 PM PST by GrandMoM

What "Gay" Marriage Will Mean for our Children

By Linda P. Harvey

Column originally published on WorldNetDaily.com, July 19, 2003 © 2003 WorldNetDaily.com

"Same sex marriage? It doesn't bother me!"

In many circles, this is the prevailing sentiment regarding the possible legalization of same-sex relationships as "marriages" in the U.S. If the Supreme Court in the state of Massachusetts rules in favor of the homosexual couples who have sued for marriage rights, then other states will most likely be forced to recognize these couplings as marriages under the Full Faith and Credit Clause of the U.S. Constitution.

There's just one problem with this angle: It doesn't take into account the impact on children. If same-sex relationships become the law of the land, then homosexual marriage will be presented to America's schoolchildren as the equivalent of heterosexual marriage.

Here's how and why it will happen. Right now, the vast majority of U.S. public school districts have put themselves in a very vulnerable position, one that conservatives have been warning about for years but few school boards listened. What they've done is add under their non-discrimination policies the category of "sexual orientation." It only remains for enough time to elapse - and for same-sex marriage to be legalized - for "gay" education activists to force schools to implement sweeping changes in curricular content.

Among those changes will be "diverse" textbooks that include same-sex couples as role models, even for little children. To refuse such content will be considered "discrimination," and the American Civil Liberties Union and Lambda Legal Defense Fund will take that district to court, as they have recently in order to force homosexual clubs onto schools. If not those two well-heeled groups, then the National Education Association will sue, as it has promised, on behalf of any teachers involved. Increasingly liberal courts, modeling themselves after the Supremes, are pretty likely to rule in favor of such plaintiffs.

That also goes for the "right" of teachers who are homosexual to wear wedding rings, talk about their homosexual spouses with students and introduce spouses at school functions. Your little Katie will learn in kindergarten that "Mrs." Jones is married to another "Mrs." Jones - and that she can grow up and choose to do the same if she wishes. It is, after all, her "right."

Grade-school and middle-school anti-bias units will now crank into high gear the focus on homosexuals and cross-dressers. Because marriage is now legalized, children will be persuaded in misleading material that anyone who objects to homosexual behavior is not simply biased, that person is breaking the law. The take-away for students from these shallow lessons will be that it is illegal to criticize homosexuality, and every person young or old should be protected from the mean conservatives. Standing up for equality in America will translate into the freedom to practice homosexuality for every student who "discovers" such inclinations.

Sex education will be required to take into account this new form of "family" and abstinence - until - marriage education will take a twisted new turn. Suddenly, it will be co-opted by Planned Parenthood and other liberal activists with their own unique spin. Every student will be taught that, of course, abstinence until heterosexual or homosexual marriage is fine if that's one's choice. But since pregnancy isn't a danger for homosexuals, sex can be a wonderful option for younger and younger people - as long as it's carried out "responsibly," of course - like brushing one's teeth. To not teach this would be, again "discrimination" based on sexual orientation. Condoms are always available for those who can't wait. Let's show you third-graders how this condom fits on this banana, just so you are prepared.

Expect a whole new crop of young adult novels featuring same-sex romance leading to marriage to appear instantly and be adopted just as magically by middle-school and high-school language departments throughout the U.S. Your 13-year-old Kyle will be required to read and give a book report on a novel where Bruce and Jason meet, date and get married. What won't be covered is how Bruce and Jason split up a year later after cheating on each other dozens of times.

And it gets better (or worse). This stop-gap standard will last for just a few years, until the inevitable next piece of the puzzle is in place. Hank and Jim will petition the courts to allow Mary, the biological mother of "their" adopted child, to become part of their marriage. After all, what business does the court have in their bedrooms, determining who they have a right to love? Along about this same time, Cindy and her partner, Luke (who is really Lucy, except that she dresses like a man) will demand that the law recognize Luke as a "husband" in spite of her biology. And so will emerge the accompanying new curricular materials reflecting the legalization of group marriage and transgender unions, making sure every U.S. school child knows that these are future options for him, her or them.

In such a legal and educational environment, what happens to religions that don't believe homosexuality is moral? Will those religions and their ancient teachings eventually come before some future Supreme Court and be told that they are guilty of discrimination? That their beliefs are no longer constitutional because of privacy rights?

If this sounds like lunacy, it's because it is. What we do in the bedroom has always been public, in the form of what we call a family. It becomes what we teach and pass on as wisdom to our children. And if we aren't sure what "wisdom" entails, by golly, the homosexual activists are here to tell us.

° San Francisco Becomes Outlaw Territory ° Homosexual Marriage Debate Moves Into the Schools ° The Latest on Same Sex Marriage in Massachusetts ° Is the Da Vinci Code Christian? ° Parents Against Bad Books in Schools – Get info on porn-laden school "literature" ° Hollywood's Distorted Picture of So-Called "Homophobes" ° Christian Witness to a Pagan Planet ° Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood

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> PARENTS & STUDENTS! Take our survey - How is homosexuality presented in your school?

> Help stop PFLAG and GLSEN

> Students - See our web site at Choice4Truth

> Organize a Group to Fight the "Gay" Agenda in Your School


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To: Peach
If enough parents are concerned about this, they can tell their public schools not to indoctrinate their children with the homosexual lifestyle. If the schools do not listen, then it's up to the parents to remove their children and have them educated elsewhere -- founding their own private schools, using existing private schools that they can trust, or homeschooling.

Believe me, if enough angry parents go down to the school board and tell them what they expect from their public schools that they are paying for, the board will listen, especially if parents back it up with a strong threat to remove their children if the board doesn't comply with their wishes.

I've seen that tactic work, and not in a well-to-do, lilly-white school district either.
101 posted on 02/23/2004 7:38:17 AM PST by ladylib
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To: ladylib
I agree with what you wrote.

The unfortunate thing is that far too many parents don't know this is going on in our schools, and children are often embarrassed to discuss it with their parents.

Parents need to be more involved in their kid's schools and, as you said, demand better from the schools if they find out that the radical left is trying to promote homosexuality to our children. It's called recruitment and it's frightening.
102 posted on 02/23/2004 7:42:09 AM PST by Peach (The Clintons have pardoned more terrorists than they ever captured or killed.)
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To: ladylib
Bumping good advice!
103 posted on 02/23/2004 7:42:21 AM PST by EdReform (Support Free Republic - All donations are greatly appreciated. Thank you for your support!)
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To: EdReform
Good! I'm saving it too and hope you don't mind if we both post it on threads where we believe it's appropriate.

I find the radical left and gay agenda to be the most frightening thing facing this country, with the exception of terrorism.

Parents just DON'T know what's going on all too often, and kids are too embarrassed to discuss it.
104 posted on 02/23/2004 7:43:52 AM PST by Peach (The Clintons have pardoned more terrorists than they ever captured or killed.)
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To: buffyt
Prove it.
105 posted on 02/23/2004 7:48:48 AM PST by redangus
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To: Peach; little jeremiah; scripter; GrandMoM

Good! I'm saving it too and hope you don't mind if we both post it on threads where we believe it's appropriate.


Please, by all means, post it whenever an appropriate thread or reply comes up! Please consider adding the following two links to your replies:


What We Can Do To Help Defeat the "Gay" Agenda (http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1076476/posts)


Homosexual Agenda: Categorical Index of Links (Version 1.1) (http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1026551/posts)



I find the radical left and gay agenda to be the most frightening thing facing this country, with the exception of terrorism. Parents just DON'T know what's going on all too often, and kids are too embarrassed to discuss it.


The links listed above contain lots of information and ideas, and will be useful to parents and anyone wishing to take a stand against the homosexual agenda. Please pass the URL's on to everyone you know.

106 posted on 02/23/2004 8:03:07 AM PST by EdReform (Support Free Republic - All donations are greatly appreciated. Thank you for your support!)
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To: EdReform
I just went to save the Homosexual Agenda by category link and realized I'd already saved it last week!

Last week, when it became obvious this would be a hot button issue, I started a file and have already referenced some of those links.

Thanks so much!
107 posted on 02/23/2004 8:05:45 AM PST by Peach (The Clintons have pardoned more terrorists than they ever captured or killed.)
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To: EdReform
....EXCELLANT POST EdReform!!Thanks!
108 posted on 02/23/2004 8:07:16 AM PST by GrandMoM (....for the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart {Matthew 12:34})
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To: GrandMoM
References:

Teaching Kindergarten Kids About 'Human Differences' and Homosexuality Isn't 'Easy' in Newton

Queering Elementary Education

Queering the Schools

Hurricane GLSEN

Reading, Writing, and ... Homosexuality?

How Homosexual Activists Are Taking Their Messages to the Public Schools

Targeting Children - How the gay movement intends to capture the next generation

Targeting Children - Part two: How the homosexual movement uses public schools as instruments of change

Targeting Children - Part three: Activists encouraging experimentation

Targeting Children - Part four: Access to children: homosexuality and molestation



Seven Steps to Recruit-proof Your Child


Choice4Truth

109 posted on 02/23/2004 8:24:16 AM PST by EdReform (Support Free Republic - All donations are greatly appreciated. Thank you for your support!)
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To: GrandMoM
You're welcome!
110 posted on 02/23/2004 9:41:05 AM PST by EdReform (Support Free Republic - All donations are greatly appreciated. Thank you for your support!)
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To: Peach
I know that, and kids don't like being grilled by their parents either. There has to be a better way, perhaps putting the syllabus of every course on line, an explanation on line of who is being invited to the school to give a talk, etc., and a promise by school officials that they will not give surveys to students unless the parent gives written permission.

Flip through the textbooks too.
111 posted on 02/23/2004 10:01:33 AM PST by ladylib
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To: petercooper
I don't know about most.

I think for many it's a pleasure of the moment choice and some sense of belonging after feeling so odd-person-out for so long. Then if one 'comes out' there's the pseudo family of the movement.

But many are trapped and have 'tried,' many have tried fairly hard . . . to escape their orientation and failed utterly--for a list of reasons.

It's not an easy sin to overcome by all accounts. Few people are just delivered by a snap of God's finger. Few alcoholics are delivered that way either.
112 posted on 02/23/2004 5:37:14 PM PST by Quix (Choose this day whom U will serve: Shrillery & demonic goons or The King of Kings and Lord of Lords)
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To: scripter
Thanks. Appreciate the links.
113 posted on 02/23/2004 5:37:49 PM PST by Quix (Choose this day whom U will serve: Shrillery & demonic goons or The King of Kings and Lord of Lords)
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To: Peach
You're welcome!
114 posted on 02/23/2004 9:35:47 PM PST by EdReform (Support Free Republic - All donations are greatly appreciated. Thank you for your support!)
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To: EdReform; Peach
Politics makes strange bedfellows, doesn't it. Don't you find it a bit amuzing that so many fervently anti-gay, pro-life people here are singing the praises of Tammy Bruce, a pro-abortion lesbian?
115 posted on 02/24/2004 4:28:01 AM PST by tdadams
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To: tdadams
Because someone is pro-choice does NOT mean he/she does not have good and valid points. It's extremists like you who frighten people away from the party.
116 posted on 02/24/2004 4:47:07 AM PST by Peach (The Clintons have pardoned more terrorists than they ever captured or killed.)
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To: GrandMoM
Your little Katie will learn in kindergarten that "Mrs." Jones is married to another "Mrs." Jones - and that she can grow up and choose to do the same if she wishes. It is, after all, her "right."

If perverts get their way, little Katie won't have to grow up to choose to do the same thing. One of the perverts, either male or female will make the choice for her when she is old enough to walk. If the last sentence is not enough to make every decent individual puke and then do everything in their power to stop this .... Folks, just as Chamberland learned the hard about Hitler, evil never stops in and of itself, it must be stopped. It always must be stopped with force and it always goes down kicking and screaming. If we do not stop this, our chilren and grandchildren's blood [figuretively] will be on our heads.

117 posted on 02/24/2004 4:57:43 AM PST by sport
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To: tdadams
Politics makes strange bedfellows, doesn't it. Don't you find it a bit amuzing that so many fervently anti-gay, pro-life people here are singing the praises of Tammy Bruce, a pro-abortion lesbian?

One of the more close minded statements I've seen on FR.

You obviously don't know the difference between being opposed to gay marriage and hating gays.

So you don't consider people to have valuable viewpoints unless they are heterosexual and pro-life? How sad for you.

118 posted on 02/24/2004 5:34:11 AM PST by Peach (The Clintons have pardoned more terrorists than they ever captured or killed.)
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To: Peach
How many bellicose assumptions can you make in one post? You obviously aren't familiar at all with my points of view.

And it seems you missed the point of my post altogether.

119 posted on 02/24/2004 6:04:00 AM PST by tdadams
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To: Peach
It's extremists like you who frighten people away from the party.

Please, oh please, tell me what you know about my viewpoints, and what makes me an extremist. This should be hilarious. I think you've made an embarassing and hasty judgment of me.

120 posted on 02/24/2004 6:05:52 AM PST by tdadams
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