[Quix]

I don't know about most.

I think for many it's a pleasure of the moment choice and some sense of belonging after feeling so odd-person-out for so long. Then if one 'comes out' there's the pseudo family of the movement.

But many are trapped and have 'tried,' many have tried fairly hard . . . to escape their orientation and failed utterly--for a list of reasons.

It's not an easy sin to overcome by all accounts. Few people are just delivered by a snap of God's finger. Few alcoholics are delivered that way either.

[GrandMoM]

Few alcoholics are delivered that way either. ....I was, PRAISE GOD!!!

....I just cried to him one night that I just had to stop and I knew I was too weak to do it myself. I asked him to please help me and he did, I haven't missed it at all, and it will be 2 years in April that I haven't had a drop!!!