Posted on 08/04/2025 10:45:38 AM PDT by Red Badger
There is a growing trend of objectively beautiful women complaining about the lack of male attention while enjoying a night out with their friends.
Never in history have I heard of women complaining that men weren’t paying enough attention to them. However, after several decades of demonizing men for their advances, it seems men have finally taken the hint and backed off.
There’s a social media trend right now of women posting videos frustrated that men aren’t approaching them romantically. Instead of exploring the reasons behind this shift with curiosity and compassion, many of these posts have a blaming tone “What’s WRONG with men?”
Maybe…
— Lisa Britton (@LisaBritton) July 20, 2025
“It’s difficult being this hot,” a model from North Carolina told Jam Press, according to the New York Post. “Men think I’m too beautiful to date or worry that I’ll turn them down.” She claims men just don’t know how to approach beautiful women anymore.
While she is right about the feeling that men don’t know how to approach women like her anymore, her conclusion that it’s because they’ll face rejection is a crooked half-truth that doesn’t analyze the real fear men have when “hitting” on the opposite sex.
Rejection is likely the least of their fears. In fact, if you polled single men, they would probably take a polite rebuff over what’s actually at stake when they get the courage to talk to women.
Why are so few young men approaching girls now?
Massive shift underway where you have 8-9s yearning to be chatted up.
They get dressed up to go out, but all for nothing. pic.twitter.com/bThydjh0rF
— TastefulLindy (@LindyTasteful) July 18, 2025
When men notice a pretty woman across the room, the old calculation was: Am I in her league? Can I come up with a creative enough opening line to get her attention? But now they have to worry about whether or not they’ll be labeled as creepy for even approaching, or worse, get labeled as a sex predator and be added to the #MeToo list for simply paying her a compliment.
Men are in a lose-lose situation. Our society demonizes their inherent masculinity as toxic the moment they enter this world. Their gaze is looked at as menacing. What used to be considered a sign of the relationship between men and women is now looked at as dangerous.
Our culture needs an overhaul that allows men the freedom to confidently approach a beautiful woman in the wild (not through their phone’s dating app). But maybe now that hot women are complaining about the lack of male attention, there will be a change.
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Some guys will go all ‘George Floyd’ about meeting her,
their unspoken response being: “I Can’t Breathe!!”
Takes THAT much drugs!?!?!
Know one of the owners.
Great marketing campaign right there.
I concur regarding the YouTuber called hoemath.
Two other things I hope everyone will remember:
1) The girl can withdraw consent the next day!
2) There is an epidemic of Herpes. 846 million people. 42 million new cases every year. 1 in every 5 people aged 18-49 has it. Women are NOT being honest about it. They all want to sleep with a small number of Chads and spreading sexually transmitted diseases.
More on this from YouTuber PearlyThings.
They should go where the men are.
Shooting ranges.
Some free advice (take it or leave it ... but understand the consequences):
Gentlemen: Only ever stick it in your wife.
Ladies: Only ever spread ‘em for your husband.
Nothing is guaranteed, but following the advice above will greatly reduce your probability of suffering myriad negative outcomes.
Guess I’m lucky. Having been cursed with the looks and personality of a Neanderthal I had my share of brutal rejections from a young and ego smashed into pulp that there is nothing a woman can say to me that means a damned thing. This has proven a boon as I am able to chat up any gal no matter how beautiful.
Getting dates is easy. And you should see their faces when I crank out a little Chopin or Rach 2 on the piano. Their heads tilted like a puppy who just wants to hold that bone of yours in their mouth. That’s when the floodgates open wide.
Old age, frustration, and wrinkles await those hot ladies who have nothing else worthwhile to give. Good looks only works till about 37.
When the women step up their “B” game they’ll do much better at attracting men.
Hot/crazy matrix applies.
IMHO
***Playboy articles back in the 70’s***
I remember an extremely beautiful girl in High School in 1962-1964. Years later she said she often spent the weekend alone with her parents because all the boys thought she had a “steady” so never even tried to ask her out.
Any of those hot girls want a poor, old, short, married man I’m available.
I don’t see too many TastefulLindys at my local Walmart....
You left out bald
Your father was spot on. I could say more, but don’t want to be assassinated.
I often asked girls out in High School 1962-1964 and was always turned down. Never had a date till 19 years of age. I graduated at 17 years of age.
I figured it was because it was a backwoods Ozark school that dad dragged us to in 1956 where all the kids were kin to everyone else by blood or marriage. We were considered outsiders as we were from 1000 mile away.
Found a great girl in Tulsa OK in 1971. 49 of the best years of my life.
There’s a clothing line here that could be developed. Shirts and jewelry that a woman can wear to show that she is SAFE to approach, court, marry and raise children.
She permits a good man to approach and will not ruin his life. She is also a concealed carrier.
Look for a cross and some minor printing.
I grew up in a very small Southern town. Everybody knew everybody else and their cousins.
Outsiders were looked upon with suspicion. It’s a normal reaction for small townsfolk, regardless of locale...............
This quote in this article makes me laugh out loud. “It’s difficult being this hot.”
Honey, you need to get over yourself.
I watched a youtube video of a young woman saying, “I get a lot more men approaching me when I go out WITHOUT WEARING MAKEUP or fixing my hair. She is not “made up” in the video and looks very nice NATURALLY.
She sounded angry her efforts to use make-up are counter-productive.
Could it be young men are more interested in AUTHENTIC young women and not some “trophy” girlfriend?
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