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BOY PROBLEMS Young men are struggling, and we wanted to figure out just how badly and why.
.nytimes ^ | May 13, 2025 | The Morning

Posted on 05/15/2025 8:49:44 AM PDT by daniel1212

Boys enter kindergarten lagging behind girls in both academic readiness and behavior. A majority of teenagers agree that boys are more disruptive...girls get better grades, have more leadership roles and speak up more in class.

A bar chart shows the results of a survey of teenagers: 64 percent say boys are more disruptive in school, 27 percent view girls as more like leaders, and 78 percent believe teachers have no gender preference for favorites.
Source: Pew Research Center | Survey was conducted Sept. 18-Oct. 10. Home-schooled teens were not included. Shares of respondents who did not offer an answer are not shown. | By The New York Times

In interviews, young men say that school never felt like a good fit for them, or that they got the sense that teachers didn’t like boys, and that this left them feeling discouraged or undervalued. By high school, girls are more likely to graduate on time — and more likely to go to college.

A line graph showing college attendance rates from 1960 to 2022. Women’s attendance increased from below men’s to 66 percent in 2020, while men’s attendance was at 57%.
Source: National Center for Education Statistics | Individuals ages 16-24 are counted here if enrolled in a two- or four-year college by October in the year of their high school graduation or equivalent. | By The New York Times

Young men are struggling in their mental health and transitions to adulthood, too. What’s going on here? I’m reporting a series on boys, the first installment of which published today. I’d love to hear your experiences... Tell The Times what you think here. — Claire Cain Miller

(Excerpt) Read more at messaging-custom-newsletters.nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Business/Economy; Education; Health/Medicine; Society
KEYWORDS: contraceptives; era; feminism; transgender; womenleaders

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Another indirect effect of the sacred cow of contraception.
1 posted on 05/15/2025 8:49:44 AM PDT by daniel1212
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Our society hates men. Hates boys. Hates whites. Hates Christians.

How’s that working out?


2 posted on 05/15/2025 8:52:11 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (People who receive less results for effort will naturally put in less effort when the game is rigged)
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To: daniel1212

TRANSLATION: Boys don’t act like girls, therefore they must be defective.


3 posted on 05/15/2025 8:53:21 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum (Democrats are the Party of anger, hate and violence.)
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To: daniel1212

It has always been my belief that girls did better. They always did when I was in school, anyway. This is nothing new to me.


4 posted on 05/15/2025 8:54:00 AM PDT by telescope115 (I NEED MY SPACE!!! 🔭)
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To: ClearCase_guy

Hates freedom. Hates liberty. Hates hard work. Hates success. Hates Jews. Hates the rich.

But brown, black and female? That’s good. Real good.


5 posted on 05/15/2025 8:54:29 AM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom (“Diversity is our Strength” just doesn’t carry the same message as “Death from Above”)
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Post 1960s public- education theory - Boys are merely defective girls


6 posted on 05/15/2025 8:54:35 AM PDT by PGR88
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To: daniel1212
Part of this is the pathologizing normal little boy behavior - as if they're defective girls - and part of it is just a hostility towards men (in this case pre-men) we have seem from modern feminism, which today's classrooms are staffed with.

Listening to years of anti-male crap from their psycho lib teachers has probably instilled a sense of rage in them which comes out in their teens.

I'd also like to know how many of these "disruptive" boys are fatherless and/or on psychotropics.

7 posted on 05/15/2025 8:55:38 AM PDT by Lizavetta
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To: telescope115

Agree this is not new. Boys mature later than girls do. Generally by High school they catch up.


8 posted on 05/15/2025 8:57:13 AM PDT by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: daniel1212

The Lying Leftist NYT at it again.

There’s nothing wrong with boys. They naturally mature later than girls and are a lot more active because that’s how they are made, because as men they are made to run the world.

Satan and the Left hate males because men are God’s creation to run the show.

How I hate the Left.


9 posted on 05/15/2025 8:57:41 AM PDT by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: daniel1212

We are having lunch with friends we graduated with in high school (50+ years ago). Good topic for discussion!


10 posted on 05/15/2025 8:58:05 AM PDT by telescope115 (I NEED MY SPACE!!! 🔭)
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Post 1960s public- education theory - Boys are merely defective girls


“Girls go to college to get more knowledge/Boys go to Jupiter to get more stupider”


11 posted on 05/15/2025 8:59:32 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: daniel1212

Back in olden times, they used to hire teenage boys to work as telephone operators. They switched to girls or women because the boys were too disruptive.

Some things don’t change.


12 posted on 05/15/2025 8:59:56 AM PDT by Fresh Wind (Kamala defines herself in just 4 words..."Nothing comes to mind.")
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To: Lizavetta

Wanna play cricket on the green
Ride my bike across the street
Cut myself and see my blood
Wanna come home all covered in mud

I’m a boy, I’m a boy
But my ma won’t admit it
I’m a boy, I’m a boy
But if I say I am, I get it


13 posted on 05/15/2025 9:00:16 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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"Women outpacing men in college attendance."

They're outpacing men in being buried in student loan debt, too, which is why so many of them are psycho.

14 posted on 05/15/2025 9:00:21 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum (Democrats are the Party of anger, hate and violence.)
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There was a reason that single sex high school education was popular for decades. Boys and girls have different needs educationally. Single sex education permitted schools to focus on the needs of one sex without the social distractions of dating and rivalries for affection.


15 posted on 05/15/2025 9:04:06 AM PDT by Dr. Franklin ("A republic, if you can keep it." )
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It’s also a consequence of going so long without having a war, especially once Vietnam ended and we went to an all-volunteer military.

It was a given back then that boys should early on start acquiring skills they would need to be soldiers, since pretty much you could count on another war to happen every 20-40 years.


16 posted on 05/15/2025 9:04:48 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: telescope115

It’s what I experienced too; and then by high school the boys are doing better than girls in certain areas. (And I have no idea what ‘contraception’ has to do with something that’s always been true.)


17 posted on 05/15/2025 9:04:49 AM PDT by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

That is an additional factor in the mating problems of Gen Z. Women are chasing the top 10% of all men (the other 90% can live in the Friendzone). And it seems that most of the women chasing the top 10% of men are bringing nothing to the table — except about $100,000 in student loan debt. That top 10% of men? A heck of a lot of them intend to stay single. We face a demographic collapse.


18 posted on 05/15/2025 9:05:30 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (People who receive less results for effort will naturally put in less effort when the game is rigged)
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To: Dr. Franklin

I think that was a good idea that we shouldn’t have given up.


19 posted on 05/15/2025 9:06:10 AM PDT by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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Boys are told to shut up, girls are encouraged to speak.

20 posted on 05/15/2025 9:07:40 AM PDT by BitWielder1 (I'd rather have Unequal Wealth than Equal Poverty.)
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