Posted on 12/18/2022 4:33:06 PM PST by DallasBiff
Incel woman: see “cat lady”.
Vintage name= Crone.
a target rich environment
Said by a true man.
Incel woman: see “cat lady”.
Her name is Karen.
Hopefully this is somewhat on topic and not thread jacking. Something I would tell most incels, or anyone trying to get a day in this day and age: Work on yourself, and work on your own happiness. Being alone sucks, being unhappy sucks. Modern dating, especially over 40 is an excrement exposition, and online dating is toxic as hell. Don’t try for a relationship, especially with some random online. Work on yourself, try to be at peace, try to be the best person you can be. Stay away from the porn, if you want to go full nofap, or semen retention have at it. Don’t languish. Don’t quit. Life is shit, and it says a lot about a man who just grabs a shovel and does what he has to.
It’s the fantasy prone individual who create an imaginary type person that’s impossible to find in real life. Porn and idol gazing/objectification are dangerous to men as fantasy romance novels are for women. Now add narcissism to the mix and godlessness you you have today’s society.
Don’t try to date if you’re unhappy, been there, tried that, it didn’t show over anything.
You are both smearing decent Christian guys, in your posts.
I know many Christian men who had difficulty finding good Christian women. Some still haven’t. I know one could do some things to better his situation, but the Christian women pickings are few, where he lives, as well.
I had problems finding the woman who would become my wife, too. Part of it was that I believe divorced women (and men) should stay single, or reconcile, as Paul stated. I believe marriage is until death, as do some of these men.
No “incel” among them.
Such strenuous living, I just, don’t understand. In just 7 days... I can make you a MaaaaaaaAAAAAAaannnnn!.
Look up the tragic tale of Elliot Rodger: Santa Barbara Incel, Serial Killer from 2014. That’s how he described himself, and proudly so.
I read his manifesto. He was detached from reality.
I suspect that there may be a affluence seeking facet to this. We don’t make a great deal of money where I work, and there are young guys here, but I don’t think any of us were prepared for the “visitation” we received a couple of weeks ago by a man with very definite opinions on women and his rightful place in the world. He announced that he was qualified to run the place (personally I thought he was mostly qualified to be relentlessly pranked by one of our more incorrigible young guys). None of us make the kind of money that he said he “needed” to grace us with his unsolicited presence as he sneered down his nose at us.
We have one young guy with no dad and an overbearing mom, but he’s our prankster.
I think we shouldn’t make assumptions, but rather we should do the work of figuring these guys out when they identify themselves. You’ve got to figure that we now live in a time when any violator of goats has access to American kids in America from any college computer lab the world over.
Height and employment are two important factors in attracting women.
However, there are many others in play.
Real men figure out what those are and then make them work in their favor.
Just a few:
—Self confidence. Stand straight and tall, no matter what your height—no slouching. Smile and be comfortable in your own skin.
—Sense of humor. If you don’t have one get one. Get funny. Get fun. Be someone others look forward to hanging out with...
—Gift of gab. Learn how to talk to anyone anywhere at any time. This can be learned and practiced.
—Dreams. Have goals. Talk about them with other people. Compare notes. Adjust as necessary.
—Hobbies. Have lots of them. Get really good at some of them.
—(I thank my father for this one...) Learn how to listen, really listen. Figure out what people like and give it to them.
—Final tip for dating—simple rule—motion is emotion. Keep it exciting, keep it in motion, make it memorable.
With those rules almost any incel can go just fine...
Syn: loser
Two or more people gathered in the name of any cause not recognized by Brandon’s FBI as Deep State friendly are “Domestic Terrorists”.
So there’s that.
Incels: Anxiety ridden, zero self confidence, no drive or ambition. Not necessarily ugly.
Natalie
It isn’t smearing anybody. An Incel is simply a term for a male that cannot have a sexual partner or marriage, even though he wants to. That’s not an insult to him to be one.
Some of the reason for incelled males is societal, women have unreasonable expectations. 6’0 males are dateable and 5’11” males are not. Women would rather be part-time concubines to have access to a desired male than come down from Mount Olympus and seek a lesser mortal.
Some of it is due to some males not having strong male figures to role model off of. Some of it is because they have received the wrong messaging as to what women desire.
Men should work on themselves, but some men are hopelessly without the ability to mate. TYraditionally, we would send these men off to war to die.
Men throughout history have figure out how they can become a success in life.
Find out the rules are...
and then break them!
Any guy who follows the list I gave earlier will have other folks wondering “How did he manage to get her? She is so beautiful yet he is so unremarkable....”
For some men, you are correct.
Just not every man.
It’s the age we live in. We don’t live in an age that values marriage, but an age where the hookup is the primary goal. Women are not going to look at a guy that doesn’t meet the superficial requirements of a desired male, regardless of whatever other qualities he may have.
It’s part of our societal collapse that we are in the middle of.
They could all benefit from a Dale Carnegie course on “how to Win Friends and Influence People.”
The basics have not changed over the last century.
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