Posted on 12/18/2022 4:33:06 PM PST by DallasBiff
Incel believers are members of an online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one.
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They are males that never learned how to be men. It really is a crisis. They never grew up with a strong male figure and/or they aren’t the most physically endowed individuals, so they are at a distinct and permanent disadvantage in society.
It’s not as though being a man comes naturally and those who aren’t masculine simply didn’t want to be so.
In today’s Rat Party the only people who are “getting any” are the perverts.
Do incels really exist? It seems to me if you wanted to not be celibate, calling yourself an incel and announcing it to the world would be one of the worst ways to end your celibacy?
Incel guy: unable to attract a woman that he feels is up to his standards, and unwilling to hire one.
Incel woman: see “cat lady”.
It is a crisis. We have feminized every aspect of society, even to the point where masculinity is being labelled as harmful by the corrupt APA.
We live in a hypergamous age, where the top 20% of men keep an informal harem of 60% of the women. The 60% of the those women will not make themselves available to the so-called lesser men until the woman start to age out, at around 30 years of age.
The middle 60% of men, who don’t have much in the way of casual sex, have to share the bottom 40% of women. These are the women that are wanting to marry the middle 60% of men.
The bottom 20% of man have no hope of companionship at all. There are the incels. They are either unfortunate in the physical department, which they can’t change, and/or they never had strong male role models to learn from to increase their attractiveness through character.
It’s become a sub-culture onto itself, just like any other groups will form subcultures around those who share commonality with them.
Yeah they do exist, instead of being on the football team, they go into the basement, and play video games, and get mad that girls don't look at them.
Those males want to be good men, for the most part. They are just receiving bad messaging on how to be one. So, they try to live up to society’s standards and then wonder why women find them unattractive.
It seems to me, they are not really attempting to end their celibate condition.
We blame them, but they have been designated to be on the bottom 20% by society. You can’t go three inches taller or create a physique that isn’t in you to create.
I agree they can still take control and live nice lives, which will help them in the romance department, but their place in society was created by the society.
Here’s my message to incels.if you think you have bad, try being a Chinese Male. Now get out of the basement, get a good job, and find a woman.
They’re the chin beard pear shaped fools following their late middle aged mother around Costco (yes, she’s pushing the cart).
INvoluntary
CELibate
I suppose I could have been called an incel coming out of college. My first two years as a butterbar took care of that: being a Platoon Leader was an exercise in developing confidence, which translated to greater success with women. Being on an AF base was a target rich environment, too.
I would agree they can improve themselves, by getting better qualifications and taking care of themselves and becoming better men.
However, that won’t fix the hypergamous culture that is, at least, partly responsible for they dynamic. Woman today would rather be a part-time concubine of a guy who is 6’2” and has a great job than lower their standards to date somebody who is 5’7” and has an average job.
Until the incel’s ability to meet standars and the woman’s willingness to lower her standards finally intersect, the incel is basically out of luck.
In my mind, being alone isn’t so bad if you creating a nice life for yourself and that should be the messaging disadvantaged men are receiving.
I advise my nephew on how to pick up women:
“Have your s#!+ together!”
Not to be confused with ‘unsub’.
Weenies at best. Psycho bitches from hell at worst. There is a bell curve to BlueBalls Syndrome.
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