It isn’t smearing anybody. An Incel is simply a term for a male that cannot have a sexual partner or marriage, even though he wants to. That’s not an insult to him to be one.
Some of the reason for incelled males is societal, women have unreasonable expectations. 6’0 males are dateable and 5’11” males are not. Women would rather be part-time concubines to have access to a desired male than come down from Mount Olympus and seek a lesser mortal.
Some of it is due to some males not having strong male figures to role model off of. Some of it is because they have received the wrong messaging as to what women desire.
Men should work on themselves, but some men are hopelessly without the ability to mate. TYraditionally, we would send these men off to war to die.
Men throughout history have figure out how they can become a success in life.
Find out the rules are...
and then break them!
Any guy who follows the list I gave earlier will have other folks wondering “How did he manage to get her? She is so beautiful yet he is so unremarkable....”
Nonsense!
Every pot has a lid. Every guy can find the right girl if he puts down the smart phone, gets out of the house, and starts seriously looking.
And prayer helps.