Hopefully this is somewhat on topic and not thread jacking. Something I would tell most incels, or anyone trying to get a day in this day and age: Work on yourself, and work on your own happiness. Being alone sucks, being unhappy sucks. Modern dating, especially over 40 is an excrement exposition, and online dating is toxic as hell. Don’t try for a relationship, especially with some random online. Work on yourself, try to be at peace, try to be the best person you can be. Stay away from the porn, if you want to go full nofap, or semen retention have at it. Don’t languish. Don’t quit. Life is shit, and it says a lot about a man who just grabs a shovel and does what he has to.
Don’t try to date if you’re unhappy, been there, tried that, it didn’t show over anything.
I speak for myself as a woman and say its real important to learn how to be happy/ satisfied with yourself and BE YOURSELF,, AUTHENTIC ,GENUINE with others.
Online dating? Not for me. i prefer to get to know someone by “ accident”...
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