Posted on 11/30/2021 5:13:42 AM PST by C19fan
An online forum for women created to tackle misogyny and offer dating advice has come under fire for echoing incel culture by scrutinising and ridiculing men.
Founded in the US in 2019 by a 'collective' of anonymous women 'from all walks of life' the blog Female Dating Strategy is a community claiming to help women enter 'relationships that truly benefit them', that's since become a global phenomenon.
It was created in reaction to the Red Pill or Incel communities - a collection of websites, blogs, and online forums which oppose feminism and promote masculinity and misogyny.
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Tape measure?
Maybe so. 😁😀
“Or they can do like I did and marry a working class girl”
All the working class girls in my area have 1-3 babies with 1-3 different daddas.
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that is what he says. He was being fixed up with a widow recently and was balking, I said widows are good... no baby daddies in the picutre
“A woman who is really interested in you, will be interested in having sex with you”
Well, yeah, but lots of good women will wait to make sure they’re not simply seen as just another scalp on some shallow “man’s” collection.
I would not consider myself particularly handsome, but my wife likes me anyway. She says the thing she likes best about me is I can get her to laugh frequently. Therefore I do not regard "genetically unattractive" as a barrier, especially if you can compensate by staying as physically fit as you can.
Mental deficiencies can be another story, but not insurmountable.
The forum absolutely hate men.
Not so sure wager Harris name is on that list the poster girl of how things work.
"The ones he has met"? Or "they ones who are currently hitting on him"? There are lots of slim young women without kids out there looking for good men (two of them are my daughters).
Sounds like he needs to increase his courage level and start saying "Hi" to more women who meet his criteria. For young men, that sometimes takes a lot of courage. Believe me I've been there -- I was a basket case in my college years, not able to respond even to attractive intelligent women who were hitting on me.
“Or they can do like I did and marry a working class girl”
All the working class girls in my area have 1-3 babies with 1-3 different daddas.
It seems worse because the players are willing to show you their narcissism and inner craziness whereas in the past they did their best to hide it until it was too late.
Also, easy to “trigger” means easy to identify. I learned from a much wiser man to trigger people you just met as much as possible. Don’t tiptoe around land mines but instead step on them because it helps to know who you want to spend time with right up front.
I like tossing a curve to see what the actual person is like under the “social auto-pilot”:
“How you doing?” “Nobody’s chasing me with a chainsaw”
Yeah, I did the analog version of eHarmony — we still have a matchmaker set up in the Orthodox community.
And it works just like a computer, but with live people working a formula.
People scoff at “arranged marriages”, but mine certainly worked.
And it’s not like you don’t have a say. We met and dated, but with mutual approval of our families.
That was 30 years and 8 daughters ago.
It’s not the size of the pencil that matters, it’s how you write your name.
So women’s locker room behavior is just as bad as men’s.
According to what some women have told me, it's much worse.
It’s not about what a person looks like. It’s an aversion to even the slightest interaction with another person whom you just run into in real life.
“David the guitarist smiled at me!” said Daughter C. (David is a cute Venezuelan boy only a little older.) That’s so creepy!”
“You were talking to that man in the gym. Don’t you think that’s creepy?”
No, this is how normal people interacted until just recently. You would smile and pass the time of day ... “Morning.” “Morning!” “Sure is busy today.” “Yeah, like most Mondays ...” with people you didn’t know and might never have any other contact with.
"Looks like someone has a case of the Mondays."
It's a natural fact of life, stemming from the observed fact that women don't generally go for significantly younger men, and men are not that interested in older women.
At 18, a woman has lots of available guys 18-30.
At 18, a guy is highly restricted in the girls he can date (and avoid legal issues).
This reverses at 30, where the guy has lots of available women younger than him, but women at 30 have a very restricted selection of guys 30-40 who are both desirable and not already taken.
Yep, widows are OK. Just be sure to check the circumstances of HOW she became a widow....8-)
Boring is worse than ugly for a guy. I think a lot of guys lack confidence (afraid of eye contact, etc.) and don’t realize they have more than enough to work with.
It’s not about what a person looks like. It’s an aversion to even the slightest interaction with another person whom you just run into in real life.
“David the guitarist smiled at me!” said Daughter C. (David is a cute Venezuelan boy only a little older.) That’s so creepy!”
“You were talking to that man in the gym. Don’t you think that’s creepy?”
From my perspective, 10 approaches where 9 of the girls think you’re “creepy”, and one says “Yes, I’d love to go out with you”, is a net win.
As long as no police show up, it’s all good.
Boring is worse than ugly for a guy. I think a lot of guys lack confidence (afraid of eye contact, etc.) and don’t realize they have more than enough to work with.
Yeah, women like the bad guy biker over a well adjusted nice guy, Sluts....
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