Posted on 10/20/2021 10:34:39 AM PDT by Red Badger
It began as an exciting trip. Every year, the elderly couple Lela, 83, and Raymond Howard, 88, took a drive out from their home in from Salado, Texas, to go to a music festival in the nearby town of Temple. It wasn’t a long way, just about 15 miles, so when Lela’s son begged to let him drive them, they refused, instead opting to take the trip just the two of them as they always had. Although Lela’s son, Hal Copeland, was concerned due to Lela’s signs of early Alzheimer’s disease, as well as the fact that Raymond had suffered a stroke not long before, he grudgingly allowed them to continue with their plans. However, when they drove onto the road on June 29th, 1997 in their Oldsmobile, perhaps no one had any idea that they would never be seen alive again, and that they were about to embark on what the media would call “a trip to nowhere,” which would begin a great unsolved mystery and inspire a hit song.
The couple never returned, and as the day wore on with still no sign of them, their family became concerned. Police were notified, and they soon found an employee at a Walmart in Temple who said he had seen the couple come in there for coffee that afternoon, but that was about it. As the search intensified, some surprising leads would come in. A Sherriff’s deputy in Arkansas would recall pulling the couple over on the evening of July 2 for driving with their headlights off, at a location 500 miles from where they had started and nowhere near Temple or Salado. The deputy claimed that the had couple told them that they were trying to get to Texas, so he gave them directions and let them off with a warning, not realizing that they were officially missing persons. Not long after that they were pulled over again by another officer for having their high beams on, and again they were let off with a warning. On July 3, the couple was seen at a farmer’s market in Arkansas and a massive search was carried out in the region to look for the wayward lovers. It was not known how they had gotten so far without being found, as Texas had had people carefully scouring the roads in and out.
Lela and Raymond Howard
In the meantime, when the couple’s residence was searched there were myriad oddities found. The calendar had been opened to February, despite the fact they had left in June, their hearing aids had been left behind, and there were clothes folded up on the bed presumably for their trip but which had never been actually packed. Their pet cat had also been left with no food or water, and the TV and other appliances were unplugged. It was thought that this was all a sign of their worsening mental deterioration, making it more urgent than ever that they be found. Authorities scoured every back road and wilderness area, every roadhouse and outhouse, helped along by a legion of civilian volunteers and countless missing persons posters, but although there were lots of reported sightings and potential leads, nothing panned out. And then there was tragedy. On July 12th, nearly two weeks after they had gone missing, some hikers were in an area just outside Hot Springs, Arkansas, found the missing Oldsmobile at the bottom of a 25-foot cliff in an area that had already been well-searched by police. Inside the car was the body of Raymond Howard, and 20 feet away was found that of Lela, still clutching her keys and purse, having apparently crawled from the wreckage to die of her injuries. The car was found to have gone hurtling over the edge at a speed of around 50 mph, with no skid marks to show that they had even tried to avert their fate. It was a sad end to the story, still leaving many questions behind, but in a sense it was still not the end.
During the time when there were articles all over the newspapers covering the strange disappearance, these headlines had captured the attention of the Texas-based musician and songwriter Tony Scalzo, who first heard of the case in a headline “Elderly Salado couple missing on a trip to nowhere.” He became absolutely obsessed with this strange tale of two old lovers on a road trip our on their own, crafting it into a hit song called “The Way” for his band “Fastball.” The song was first a smash hit single, and would help propel their 1998 2nd studio album All the Pain Money Can Buy! into the stratosphere, making them superstars overnight. Scalzo would later say of the case of the Howards and how it inspired the song:
I looked in, right away this story sort of struck me. It was sort of an ongoing story. Still no developments in the case of the missing couple. I just started getting these ideas, well maybe they don’t want to be found, maybe they’re just like – they’re sick of being responsible and they just want to go out and have fun. I believe that the song, in particular, it’s a strong song. I think it’s a strong song musically, it’s a strong song in the way it was put together musically and lyrically, I think it’s one of the best things I’ve done. At the same time, I think a lot of its power comes from the story behind it. And I somehow put together this musical piece that was enhanced by the story, and I also believe the story, for the family and the people involved, was enhanced by the song.
Fastball
The song was released one year after the bodies were found, as a sort of memorial to the missing couple, immortalizing the story, although most people at the time had no idea of the background behind the hit. Of course it is a romanticized version, but a version that a lot of people would like to embrace rather that the official prognosis that these were just disillusioned, senile people who got lost and had an unfortunate random accident. There is a certain romantic idea to it, and some form of strength in the idea that maybe they went out on their own terms, and had found some peace on their impromptu road trip. One Reddit user “Frank N. Futter” had a surprisingly profound take on it, saying:
What was going through their heads as their car plunged off the cliff edge? Fear? Confusion? I’d like to think otherwise. Perhaps, in that moment, it wasn’t 1997 anymore. Maybe it was a much earlier time for them. Maybe their damaged psyches spared them from the sad reality. Perhaps in that moment for Lela and Raymond, there were no more medications, no more hearing aids, and no more doctor’s appointments. No aching joints, no glasses, no operations, no pacemakers, no forgetting, and no more confusion. Maybe in that moment, and for their entire trip, Lela and Raymond saw themselves as a newly-wed couple, their young skin perpetually gleaming in the summer sun, Lela in her best white wedding dress and Raymond in his finest black tuxedo. Maybe they envisioned a “JUST MARRIED” sign hanging on the back of their rear window, and empty soupcans tied to their rear bumper. I wonder if they held hands. Maybe when Lela and Raymond Howard drove off that cliff in Arkansas in 1997, they weren’t scared. Maybe they were smiling. While the song had managed to make sure the couple has never been forgotten, ensuring they did not become nameless faces lost to history, there is still much we do not understand about this strange case. Why did they go off on this adventure far away from their original destination? How could they slip through the massive search going on for them at the time and how exactly did they end up at the bottom of that cliff? Was this just the tragic tale of two senile old people biting off more than they could chew or is there something more to it? It had never been totally solved, and it is sad to think that if it hadn’t been made into a hit song it might have all faded into obscurity forever.
The inspiration for “The Way” was developed after Fastball member Tony Scalzo read articles about an elderly couple from Salado, Texas, who left home in June of 1997 to attend the Pioneer Day Festival in Temple, Texas and were discovered deceased at the bottom of a ravine near Hot Springs, Arkansas two weeks later.
According to Tony Scalzo, he said that “it’s like a romanticized take on what happened” and pictured them “taking off to have fun like they did when they first met”.
The song peaked at #4 on the Billboard Hot 100 Airplay chart in 1998, and it topped Billboard’s Modern Rock Tracks chart for 7 weeks. Produced by
Fastball & Julian Raymond Release Date: February 24, 1998
[FM Radio being tuned] [Intro]
[Verse 1] They made up their minds and they started packing And left before the sun came up that day An exit to eternal summer slacking But where were they going without ever knowing the way?
[Verse 2] They drank up the wine and they got to talking But now had more important things to say And when the car broke down, they started walking Where were they going without ever knowing the way?
[Chorus] Anyone can see the road that they walk on is paved in gold And it's always summer, they'll never get cold They'll never get hungry They'll never get old and grey You can see their shadows wandering off somewhere They won't make it home, but they really don't care They wanted the highway They're happier there today, today
[Verse 3] The children woke up, and they couldn't find them They left before the sun came up that day They just drove off and left it all behind 'em (Leavin' it all behind) Where were they going without ever knowing the way? [Chorus] Anyone can see the road that they walk on is paved in gold And it's always summer, they'll never get cold They'll never get hungry They'll never get old and grey You can see their shadows wandering off somewhere They won't make it home, but they really don't care They wanted the highway They're happier there today, today
[Instrumental Break]
[Chorus] Anyone can see the road that they walk on is paved in gold And it's always summer, they'll never get cold They'll never get hungry They'll never get old and grey You can see their shadows wandering off somewhere They won't make it home, but they really don't care They wanted the highway They're happier there today, today
[Guitar Solo Outro] Leavin' it all behind
Great song and story.
More Clinton victims.
Has anyone here ever heard of the band “Fastball” or the song “The Way”?
Super-stardom???
or is this another Mandella effect?
Few bands are able to pull off a good rock song with a Cha-Cha beat.
I only read about this song’s meaning a few years ago. Back when the album came out I thought it was about retirees hitting the road to get away from their kids. Little did I know...
For anyone who hasn’t been to Salado, it’s a great little town; almost like Fredricksburg before they got too big.
Yes, but do you REMEMBER that?
Like the Monopoly character having a monocle? or Mandela dying?
Clearly this new reality popped into existing, proving the Mandela effect is real. Ipse Dixit.
I was like 14 or 15. It was one of those songs that was always on the radio for a couple of years, but I didn’t know anyone who actually was a fan of them.
My wife and I would sing that song every time we did a weekend getaway. Great song.
Never heard of either, but it’s a big country we live in.
One area may have local ‘Stars & Celebrities’ that the other 49 states will never know about, even with Google available.
If I ever go missing, check all the outhouses.
To add to the comment I just made, I will say I do remember liking the song “outta my mind” which I forgot was them. Not sure how many Millennials (I consider myself an xennial) are on this site these days who can relate to this comment, but things like this are making me miss the 90s for the first time. I’m also sure the current situation has something to do with it.
Fastball is a great band. In fact, I just saw them live for the first time a few months ago here in Reno at the Rib Cook-Off - good show.
Never heard of any of it! Maybe if I actually heard the song it might ring a bell ...but superstardom for the band?
Dittoes!
Reads like a, ‘Twilight Zone’ episode. And that’s a compliment!
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