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My New Vagina Won’t Make Me Happy
New York Times ^ | November 24, 2018 | Andrea Long Chu

Posted on 11/24/2018 4:56:51 PM PST by EdnaMode

Next Thursday, I will get a vagina. The procedure will last around six hours, and I will be in recovery for at least three months. Until the day I die, my body will regard the vagina as a wound; as a result, it will require regular, painful attention to maintain. This is what I want, but there is no guarantee it will make me happier. In fact, I don’t expect it to. That shouldn’t disqualify me from getting it.

I like to say that being trans is the second-worst thing that ever happened to me. (The worst was being born a boy.) Dysphoria is notoriously difficult to describe to those who haven’t experienced it, like a flavor. Its official definition — the distress some transgender people feel at the incongruence between the gender they express and the gender they’ve been socially assigned — does little justice to the feeling.

But in my experience, at least: Dysphoria feels like being unable to get warm, no matter how many layers you put on. It feels like hunger without appetite. It feels like getting on an airplane to fly home, only to realize mid-flight that this is it: You’re going to spend the rest of your life on an airplane. It feels like grieving. It feels like having nothing to grieve.

Many conservatives call this crazy. A popular right-wing narrative holds that gender dysphoria is a clinical delusion; hence, feeding that delusion with hormones and surgeries constitutes a violation of medical ethics. Just ask the Heritage Foundation fellow Ryan T. Anderson, whose book “When Harry Became Sally” draws heavily on the work of Dr. Paul McHugh, the psychiatrist who shut down the gender identity clinic at Johns Hopkins in 1979 on the grounds that trans-affirmative care meant “cooperating with a mental illness.”

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To: EdnaMode
It's a mental and spiritual illness that all the physical surgery and hormonal treatments in the world cannot heal. Mutilating one's natural body WILL NOT fix what is damaged in the mind and soul.
141 posted on 11/25/2018 2:41:25 PM PST by boatbums (Not by works of righteousness which we have done but according to His mercy he saved us.)
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To: EdnaMode

15 years ago I got one.
It has made me VERY happy!
Of course; it is not attached to me.


142 posted on 11/25/2018 5:23:36 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: ClearCase_guy

Planned Parenthood says, “It’s YOUR body to do with what you please.”


143 posted on 11/25/2018 5:24:29 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: montag813
Honey; bend over.

You've already GOT one!

144 posted on 11/25/2018 5:27:07 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Kickass Conservative

BINGO!


145 posted on 11/25/2018 5:27:46 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Kickass Conservative

One can get differing results by Googling Mr Happy images


146 posted on 11/25/2018 5:29:14 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: caww
Where was the warning!!!???
147 posted on 11/25/2018 5:32:55 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: higgmeister

OUCH!


148 posted on 11/25/2018 5:35:02 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Kickass Conservative
It isn't incurable. Over 80% of people (mostly teens) that have gender dysphoria “get over” it with mental therapy and/or time. I've read cases where they obsess over it for 10 to 15 years, then wham - at the age of 25 say “Hey - I like my boobs!” (30 years old in one case.)

Maybe it is like anorexia where they say you will almost always “have it” even after treatment - but it becomes a manageable issue.

149 posted on 11/25/2018 5:39:25 PM PST by 21twelve (!)
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To: Clarancebeaks

Poor thing can’t help it; as this song is stuck in his head...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ljm9CDRAhMQ


150 posted on 11/25/2018 5:40:26 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: EdnaMode

what a sad, miserable little man...


151 posted on 11/25/2018 5:43:11 PM PST by Thunder 6
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To: daniel1212

But; if none of that seems acceptable; then...

Galatians 5:12.


152 posted on 11/25/2018 5:43:41 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: boatbums
...spiritual illness...

Demonic possession doesn't seem to be in vogue as much as it used to.

153 posted on 11/25/2018 5:45:04 PM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: EdnaMode

A lifelong wound: and these morons think this changes their “gender?” Gender is simply newspeak. I think that makes him a fascist.


154 posted on 11/25/2018 7:43:30 PM PST by NetAddicted (Just looking)
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To: Skywise

I keep asking, do normal straight men and women have the right to know the person they are about to be involved with is a shemale, tranny? Do normal straight men and women if they unfortunately marry one of these mental cases have the right to sue and seek anullment?


155 posted on 11/26/2018 9:01:31 AM PST by NavyDave59
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To: NavyDave59

I’ve seen a case where a transsexual woman (former man) is romantically involved with a Lesbian! Can someone explain that one?


156 posted on 11/26/2018 5:46:03 PM PST by boatbums (Not by works of righteousness which we have done but according to His mercy he saved us.)
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To: EdnaMode

I’d like a detached version for Christmas.


157 posted on 11/26/2018 5:51:50 PM PST by Rebelbase
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To: boatbums; EdnaMode

“Mutilating one’s natural body WILL NOT fix what is damaged in the mind and soul.”

AMEN!

Mark 5:5
Constantly, night and day, he was screaming among the tombs and in the mountains, and gashing himself with stones.

Only Jesus Christ can fix this.


158 posted on 11/26/2018 8:05:13 PM PST by mrobisr
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To: Yaelle

It is a behavior. Behaviors can be modified and should not be indulged.

Any one who over loved me corrected my behavior and guided me down the right path.


159 posted on 11/27/2018 6:43:16 PM PST by PeterPrinciple (Thinking Caps are no longer being issued but there must be a warehouse full of them somewhere.)
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