Posted on 02/22/2014 10:44:53 PM PST by Slings and Arrows
With the help of Google Translate (and an ability to interpret completely random sentence structure), an American can find out what kind of advice the Japanese give to their own countrymen on how to handle the peculiarities of American culture. Here are some things to look out for if you are visiting America from Japan.
In Japan, each person eating gets as many individual dishes as needed for the meal. Sometimes more than 10 dishes per person are used. In America, there is a method where a large bowl or dish is placed in the middle of the table, and you take as much as you like from there, and put it on a big dish said to be a "dinner plate."
In Japan, meals at home are for eating, because your stomach is vacant. At an American’s dinner, there is food, decorations on the table and tableware, and music to produce a fun atmosphere. It is a time for maintaining rich human relationships. Therefore, the meal is as long as 40 minutes. In addition, often the decorative tableware has been handed down mother to daughter, two generations, three generations. In addition, there are even more valuable dishes used for Christmas and Thanksgiving.
American food is flat to the taste, indifferent in the subtle difference of taste. There is no such thing there as a little “secret ingredient.” Sugar, salt, pepper, oils, and routine spices are used for family meals. There is no such thing as purely U.S. cuisine, except the hamburger, which isn’t made at home so much. There is almost nothing special to eat based on the different seasons of the year. Basically, they like sweet, high fat, high calories things.
In Japan, hip hop clothes are considered stylish. But in the United States, it is wise to avoid them, as you might be mistaken for a member of a street gang.
The entire United States does not have good security, unfortunately. However, the difference between a place with good regional security and a “rough area” is clear. People walk less, there is a lot of graffiti, windows and doors are strictly fitted with bars. And young people are dressed in hip hop clothes that say "I want you to pay attention to me!"
Manners with cars in America are really damn good. Japanese people should be embarrassed when they look at how good car manners are in America. You must wait whenever you cross an intersection for the traffic light. People don’t get pushy to go first. Except for some people, everyone keeps exactly to the speed limit. America is a car society, but their damn good manners are not limited to cars.
In the U.S., they do not have a sense of superiority if they are able to drink a large amount. Rather, if you drink a lot, there is a sense that you cannot manage yourself. There is something close to contempt toward someone who must drink a lot to be drunk. To drink alcohol habitually is to have alcoholism. Alcoholics are weak people mentally, to be one means you have spanned the label of social outcasts that can’t self-manage.
Non-smokers are more important than smokers in the US. Smokers capture the concept that they are not able to control themselves, and are the owners of weak character.
In America, whether you are a student, working person, or housewife, you carefully make room for leisure time, weekdays and weekends. Most people are ensured free time, always. During the week they use it for walking, jogging, bicycling, tennis, racquetball, bowling, watching movies, reading, and volunteering. On the weekend, they enjoy even more freedom, and take liberal arts courses and have sporting leisures.
In Japan we believe that there is no free time during the weekday. Only the weekend. We spend the weekend watching TV, hanging around home, working, studying, and shopping, or listening to music.
See Also: 4 Russian Travel Tips for Visiting America
If you put your bent middle and index fingers of both hands in the air, you are making finger quotation marks. It means you do not believe what you are saying. You can also say, "or so called."
In Japan, when a woman laughs, she places her hand so it does not show her mouth. It is disgraceful to laugh by loudly opening the mouth. Adult males do not laugh much. There is the saying, "Man, do not laugh so much that you show your teeth."
In America, when men or women laugh, they do not turn away. They face front, open the mouth, and laugh in a loud voice. This is because in America if you muffle your laugh or turn away while laughing, you give the impression that you are talking about a secret or name-calling. It is nasty.
Cashiers are slow. Abysmally slow compared to Japan. I get frustrated when I’m in a hurry. Americans wait leisurely even if you’re in the special checkout for buying just a little something. I thought Americans were going to be quite impatient, but in reality they are extremely laid back. I thought about what I should do with my time while waiting in the grocery matrix, and began to speak at length with other guests.
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Vending machines in the United States just give carbonated beverages. Coke particularly. If you try to buy the juice from a vending machine when you’re thirsty, it’s just all carbonate. I pressed the button and thought it would be a nice orange juice, but carbonate came out. I love carbonated, but there are times when it will make you sick indeed.
In Japan, there is great fear of failure and mistakes in front of other people. It is better to do nothing and avoid being criticized than to taste the humiliation of failure. As a result, there are things we wanted to do, but did not, and often regret.
In America, you can make mistakes, fail, and it doesn’t matter. It is a fundamental feeling that to sometimes be incorrect is natural. In addition, rather than thinking about mistakes and failures, American’s have curiosity and say, "Let’s try anyway!"
I work with lots of foreigners. My particular favorite all came from Malaysia. When I was an engineer i needed a part made so I walked out in to the shop, loaded up the lathe, made the parts, and then welded it together. The Malaysians were aghast and one said, “You Americans are crazy, you aren’t afraid to do anything.”
I felt proud of that.
Yup!
Sure, every culture has its dark side.
My post was in defense of FReeper GeronL, who was attacked as being “sick” for mentioning that dark side of the Japanese culture.
Oh. the 4 Russian Travel Tips for Visiting America is even better! http://mentalfloss.com/article/54461/4-russian-travel-tips-visiting-america
Great post .. thanks !
don’t disagree - unfortunately its around the world including in the US, just harder to uncover.
That was easy
You have eaten in the wrong places. Stay out of the Taco Bell. ;-)
Both sound very familiar and I can recall the first film’s scenario from something I saw many, many years ago.
12. Cheap is good. Sushi is good. Cheap sushi (at a gas station) not so good.
I may be able to help on the second movie.
Was it call the stuff, where people would eat a tasty substance that came out of the ground and later it would eat them?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0090094/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Stuff
japan is america, if america was a humanist/secular culture instead.
and before anyone complains ancestor worship is humanism/secular. it is worshipping other human beings.
they said horse laugh, not a laughing horse.
After reading your post, I regret that I turned down a chance to go to Misawa AB and came to CA instead...not what I would even remotely consider a good trade under the current circumstances.
Great post btw...thanks for sharing your insight into Japanese culture and how it contrasts with American culture.
It’s the FR subculture. We denounce the gross immorality of faggots, but then line up with the juvenile “I’d hit it” when a woman even remotely attractive is posted. Those people are clueless as to how stupid they are. But for whatever reason they feel welcome here.
He is sick - he is OBSESSED with the subject . No matter what the thread topic is he brings up kiddie porn every single time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Haha ! It’s hard !
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