Posted on 09/09/2025 9:49:28 AM PDT by where's_the_Outrage?
After years at the bedside of dying patients, a hospice doctor noticed a striking pattern – when the end comes, people don’t cling to fear. In its place come final words that are quiet, powerful, and often shockingly unexpected.
While death is one of the most feared and least discussed parts of life, it is a moment of deep psychological transformation for many. Dr. Christopher Kerr, a palliative care physician with over two decades of experience at Hospice & Palliative Care Buffalo, has studied more than 1,500 end-of-life events. His findings challenge our traditional understanding of dying – not as a void, but as a “unique vantage point” that “changes one’s perspective and perception.”
“It naturally draws you inward. There’s reflection, and often people focus on the best points of having lived and having mattered. And that’s usually our relationships,” said Dr. Kerr, who heads the research team on dreams and visions at the end of life.
Contrary to what many expect, the final days of life are not always filled with fear.
“We’ve all been harmed in one way or another for having lived, and we seem to get put back together through these experiences,” he told the Sun. “And so, the life you live gets validated, and inversely, the fear of death seems to lessen.”
Kerr’s research shows that most dying patients experience powerful dreams or visions – sometimes involving meetings with long-lost loved ones or recalling significant life events – that provide emotional closure......
According to Kerr, children experience death differently – often because they don’t fully grasp its finality.
Instead of fear, many terminally ill children see comforting visions, like animals that assure them they’re “loved and not alone.”
“Children are creative and imaginative and can access that part of them,” Kerr said.
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He said "That's good news." He had gangrene in his left leg, was 94, and other medical issues.
Everyone should do it.
I plan on giving it try. I just haven’t seen any reviews on it yet in Google or yelp.
It's on my bucket list.
My friend was a huge Bengals fan. When the priest gave him his last rites, his last words were “Who Dey”.Everyone, even the priest laughed
“Agent Smart, what were his last words?”
“Get your knee off my chest!”
It’s helpful to think about it. As I’ve grown older I’ve found death more interesting to consider - not in a morbid way, but in a curious and sort of preparatory way.
Some people just can’t deal with the thought of it and ignore it completely; then when they get a hopeless diagnosis, they’re lost trying to deal with the finality of it.
“Hold my beer and watch this!”
Being a born again Christ follower, my father said “I’m going home”.....that was more reassuring for me than you’ll ever know.
The good don’t fear death. The evil clutch to life as long as possible because they know where they’re going in the afterlife.
Can’t wait till Christ says, there is a lot of Puppies here who have been waiting for you!
And for others, its just another day?
I did, several times, and I totally agree.
Everyone will
I hope the rainbow bridge has a place for treats. I'm looking forward to lots of belly rubs and snuggles with my pets.
My dad - who grew up dirt poor during the Depression and was very conscious about dressing and acting properly - was on his deathbed after a massive heart attack in the hospital. Our brothers and sisters were gathered around his bed, whispering quietly while he slept/was unconscious - like a typical scene from a movie
My niece, a granddaughter, who had grown up with him and was away at college, heard the news and got a plane, and rushed to the hospital. Being about 20 years old, she had standard young person’s travel garb on - a nice, but loose sweater and fashionably ripped jeans.
She entered the hospital room, we all greated her quietly as possible
Dad heard the commotion, awoke, to our surprise, lifted his head a little and said “Oh, hello honey! Nice to see you!”
His face then soured a little and he said “And you wore THAT on the airplane???”
“Always look on the bright side of life!”
“..I plan on giving it try. I just haven’t seen any reviews on it yet in Google or yelp....”
LOL...Yep. Not seen too many recent ones myself. Not that I was really looking for any either.
However, I did see one “review”, and it was definitely a “hit or miss” type of thing.
I remember reading it in: Luke 16:19-31
When hospice sent mom home, during a lucid moment, she told us Jesus said he was taking her home on her birthday. I lied for two days after her date, finally we told her, today is your birthday. She passed a few hours later.
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