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Mega-church downsizes, cuts non-essential members
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Posted on 08/29/2013 11:06:02 AM PDT by Gamecock

WINSTON-SALEM — Julie and Bob Clark were stunned to receive a letter from their church in July asking them to “participate in the life of the church” — or worship elsewhere.

“They basically called us freeloaders,” says Julie.

“We were freeloaders,” says Bob.

In a trend that may signal rough times for wallflower Christians, bellwether mega-church Faith Community of Winston-Salem has asked “non-participating members” to stop attending.

“No more Mr. Nice Church,” says the executive pastor, newly hired from Cingular Wireless. “Bigger is not always better. Providing free services indefinitely to complacent Christians is not our mission.”

“Freeloading” Christians were straining the church’s nursery and facility resources and harming the church’s ability to reach the lost, says the pastor.

“When your bottom line is saving souls, you get impatient with people who interfere with that goal,” he says.

Faith Community sent polite but firm letters to families who attend church services and “freebie events” but never volunteer, never tithe and do not belong to a small group or other ministry. The church estimates that of its 8,000 regular attendees, only half have volunteered in the past 3 years, and a third have never given to the church.

“Before now, we made people feel comfortable and welcome, and tried to coax them to give a little something in return,” says a staff member. “That’s changed. We’re done being the community nanny.”

Surprisingly, the move to dis-invite people has drawn positive response from men in the community who like the idea of an in-your-face church.

“I thought, ‘A church that doesn’t allow wussies — that rocks,’” says Bob Clark, who admires the church more since they told him to get lost.

He and Julie are now tithing and volunteering. “We’ve taken our place in church life,” he says.


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To: thackney

Cingular Wireless...


21 posted on 08/29/2013 11:41:25 AM PDT by Wyatt's Torch
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To: thackney

oh man
I believed it

I am so stupid
thanks for the truth


22 posted on 08/29/2013 11:41:47 AM PDT by RWGinger
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To: bgill

Satire aside, I never give traceable funds, always cash or items. The Word says give without expecting return nor boasting. I don’t claim charity on taxes either.


23 posted on 08/29/2013 11:42:02 AM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: Gamecock; Elsie; Colofornian

At first I thought their Bishops weren’t going to let them attend their temple unless they proved they were tithing 10%.

Then I realized this was a joke. No one in their right mind would give a bishop the power to deny a church member access to their church’s most holy place. That is between the believer and God.


24 posted on 08/29/2013 11:42:59 AM PDT by freedomlover
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To: Gamecock

I LOVE it!!!!!!!


25 posted on 08/29/2013 11:44:59 AM PDT by metmom ( For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore & do not submit again to a yoke of slavery)
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To: Gamecock
Mega-churches are way to impersonal for me. It does seem like it is all about money (donations) to them. There are many Christian families struggling right now that could use some assistance. What do the mega-churches do? My experience is they steer you to some government organization. I have yet to see a mega church help any of its members who are not able to make full tithing donations. It just seems like there is an inner clique to these churches that seem quite elitist that seem to look down upon the neediest of Christian families.

I'm not saying all mega churches are bad, just my experience with the ones I've attended left me feeling like an outsider, very impersonal behavior from supposed Christians.

26 posted on 08/29/2013 11:45:06 AM PDT by jeffc (The U.S. media are our enemy)
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To: thackney

The horoscope link was hilarious. I thought, “What kind of church would promote horoscopes?”... funny stuff.


27 posted on 08/29/2013 11:46:48 AM PDT by HeadOn (Be ready at a minute's notice to saddle up.)
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To: Gamecock
BTW... satire?

More like lampooning the whole mega church phenomena.

28 posted on 08/29/2013 11:47:10 AM PDT by jeffc (The U.S. media are our enemy)
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To: metmom

*sigh* Great satire.

I should have know it was too good to be true.

And yet I wonder if someone really tried that, if they wouldn’t actually get that result.


29 posted on 08/29/2013 11:47:18 AM PDT by metmom ( For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore & do not submit again to a yoke of slavery)
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To: thackney
Lark is a fake Church news web site meant to poke fun at Christian Churches.

Sometimes Christian Churches need to be poked a bit.

30 posted on 08/29/2013 11:52:48 AM PDT by Gamecock (Many Atheists take the stand: "There is no God AND I hate Him.")
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To: Gamecock
Very interesting. A lot of the mega churches grew big by asking non-believers what they wanted and giving it to them. Willow Creek, one of the biggies in the mega church category, actually went out and surveyed their community in designing their church. They let non-believers set the program: Make church more comfortable and “seeker sensitive”, even for people who are not actually seeking. Non-believers don’t want to hear about Hell. So don’t talk about it. They don’t want to hear about giving to God’s work, so don’t talk about it. Get rid of the crosses, hymns, etc. Don’t talk about doctrine, because that is boring. Just talk about whatever is deemed “relevant” by non-believers. Seems to me the church in question created their own problem. The message that these churches give is that you don't have to be involved. You don't have to support the ministries. You can go and be entertained without any actual commitment.
31 posted on 08/29/2013 11:52:57 AM PDT by rusty schucklefurd
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To: Red Badger
Amen!

Or, in common place vernacular, "Put your money where your mouth is!"

32 posted on 08/29/2013 11:55:26 AM PDT by zerosix (Native Sunflower)
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To: rusty schucklefurd

Willow Creek also surveyed it’s membership to see what they wanted more of. A large number said they wanted more doctrine.

Willow Creek’s answer was they needed to teach them to be “self-feeders.”

So much for the instruction to feed the sheep.


33 posted on 08/29/2013 11:58:05 AM PDT by Gamecock (Many Atheists take the stand: "There is no God AND I hate Him.")
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To: Gamecock

I prefer how my pastor handled this issue, by teaching!

http://www.legacychurchnm.com/index.cfm/pageid/2532/index.html#la=loaded&h=860&w=1040


34 posted on 08/29/2013 11:59:48 AM PDT by Kartographer ("We mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes and our sacred honor.")
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To: VanDeKoik

I have yet to hear of any Catholic sect demanding its flock PROVE its members are “contributing”. I have heard some strong sermons about it, but that’s as far as it gets, because the genuinely faithful just need an occasional reminder of their duty.

Must be a proddy/baptist/lutheran/reformed/whatever thing...


35 posted on 08/29/2013 12:01:51 PM PDT by Don W (Know what you WANT. Know what you NEED. Know the DIFFERENCE!)
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To: Don W

Dang, I got sucked in by a satire.

It doesn’t happen often, but I went hook, line, and sinker.

Good post!


36 posted on 08/29/2013 12:06:56 PM PDT by Don W (Know what you WANT. Know what you NEED. Know the DIFFERENCE!)
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To: Don W
Must be a proddy/baptist/lutheran/reformed/whatever thing...
(Lark News == satire)
37 posted on 08/29/2013 12:10:14 PM PDT by Lee N. Field ("And if you are Christ's, then you are Abraham's offspring, heirs according to promise" Gal 3:29)
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To: Gamecock
If the church leadership and teachers are teaching doctrine in the first place, then the members can learn to feed themselves. That is part of the intent behind the instruction in the Bible to “Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman who needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. 2 Timothy 2:15”.

But if the church is not teaching doctrine, what in the world is it teaching, and why? If it is not teaching the Word of God, then it really needs to get into some other business because it is not fulfilling the mission of the church.

38 posted on 08/29/2013 12:13:30 PM PDT by rusty schucklefurd
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To: Gamecock
Interesting. I'm not a church person, but Jesus asked quite a bit of his followers.

I need to think about this one for a while to figure out what spirit this is done with before I could have an opinion to go with my initial reaction.

In the families I grew up in, you were to contribute, not be a burden. Not pulling your own way was definitely a sin in those family situations, as was waiting to be told to do something you saw needed to be done.

39 posted on 08/29/2013 12:13:56 PM PDT by GBA (Our obamanation: Romans 1:18-32)
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To: zerosix

OR:

Take your money from where your heart is................


40 posted on 08/29/2013 12:16:11 PM PDT by Red Badger (It is dangerous to be right in matters where established men are wrong. .....Voltaire)
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