Posted on 06/10/2019 8:12:13 AM PDT by madprof98
Where I fell on the sexuality spectrum would take me the better part of two years to figure out. A part of myself wasn't living. And by not letting that part live, I was slowly dying.
There's a price of admission for coming out as gay later in life. Over the course of several months, I paid the price daily. It was like I was watching a movie about myself but unable to control what was unfolding. Everything fell apart.
I did my best to slowly confide in my husband. But I kept many of my feelings inside to avoid hurting him. He tried to be supportive, but he also needed answers.
He felt unsettled and scared about the uncertainty of our future. He asked several times if I was a lesbian. It was a question that felt impossible to answer because I knew what that answer would mean.
I confided in my sister first. I wasn't brave enough to actually say the words -- the label of being gay or a lesbian was too much for my soul to bear at the time -- so I sent her a text message, "I am not straight."
She responded perfectly, asking if she could buy a Pride flag and offered to tell my parents.
Later that day, I got two of the most relieving texts from my parents that I've ever received.
That's what I'm striving to do now: shape a new life that includes my now ex-husband and my kids. Our family structure just looks a little different than it used to.
(Excerpt) Read more at cnn.com ...
Anyone who likes to identify by what they like sexually is just plain neurotic
Any man who has a family and obviously orgasms with a woman and then one day decides he likes a hard Willie up his arse and the hot breath of a man on his neck and the stench of rectum in the room
Needs to carry a lot of air freshener around
Speaking practically
My oldest boy who’s 19 was with me Saturday nite while we did rounds and decided to just sight see around 11 downtown Nashville the CMA music fest crowds
Two shows going on at the stadium and the amphitheater
Downtown packed
We were girl watching of course...man it’s pretty good place for that
We decided to go home the Trace so I south on Church street and slowed as we passed the blocks with homosexual hangouts....why do lesbians and fags hang out together ..weird
Anyhow...all the leather guys were out front of some gay bar.....Bears I guess.....pasty hairy guys in leather police caps. And leather lederhosen looking outfit....we both started laughing
So weird...these were not buff twinks...
I will never get it
Hi honey I want a divorce so I can go do “that”
When you have children you put their needs first. If the author wanted to divorce she should have waited until the kids were independent. She sacrificed her children’s mental health & happiness for sex.
My advise for all these people with uncontrollable urges? Snap out of it.
That Hormel guy who was appointed to ambassador had 6 kids before he discovered he was never attracted to women.
This woman is a self-centered, destructive jerk. Period.
I’ve got two words for you Mel, “mental illness”
and go lesbian for now....”
Sounds like you won’t be too surprised when this idiot is testifying that the biggest mistake she ever made was declaring herself gay and throwing her blood family over to rub crotches with random strangers...
With the overkill in representation of the homos, lesbians and trannies in the entertainment industry today, you'd think that every other person in the world was one of the above.
Satan at work.
Sister- You go girl.
Parents- Whatever makes you happy dear.
Ex husband- Whew! Glad I got out of that!
So she played with a woman while she was still married. How much did she get of his money in the divorce settlement? Should get nothing.
Right! A person can have attractions to both sexes but still be monogamous and faithful the rest of their lives. I mean, married heterosexuals can still be attracted to others and not KILL A PART OF THEMSELVES if they don’t immediately penetrate the cute waitress or handsome bartender.
The left keeps bouncing back and forth between the “homosexuality is hard-wired” theme (this article), and the “gender is fluid” theme (the main trend for the last couple of years).
And while the vast majority of people feel inside like the gender they are, the number of people who feel like the other gender or even like no gender is increasing. They really do feel this way. It can’t be fun to feel like a woman and look like a man. We need lots of empathy and love for people trying to live life with such a disability.
Exactly what I just said above.
And you know they're never shooting straight on the fact of these accounts. They deal in lies.
This is what happens when society tries to mainstream the mentally ill.
What a great post.
I was married with 2 kids when I realized I’m a flaming heterosexual and I am still occasionally attracted to women other than my wife. And yet, somehow I have been happily monogamous for over 30 years now. Could it be that humans are more than just slaves to our sexual impulses and have the ability to exercise free will?
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