Right! A person can have attractions to both sexes but still be monogamous and faithful the rest of their lives. I mean, married heterosexuals can still be attracted to others and not KILL A PART OF THEMSELVES if they dont immediately penetrate the cute waitress or handsome bartender.
These stories are inherently so depressing. I was a child during the height of the "Me Decade" years of the late 70s and recall vividly many of my friends' parents abandoning their responsibilities to their families to go shack up, have an affair, all under the excuse of "I need to find myself" or other similar selfish nonsense.
The kids didn't just "get over it." They were devastated. Their worlds were ruined. I have friends today, 50 years old, and they never got over their parents walking out on them when they were children.